Ok...I think I've about had my fill of the snide remarks from the
pro's about folks who shoot at wedding who aren't pro.
There are tons of threads about "outshooting the pro". Who are
they talking about? For every wedding photographer who I would
consider a pro, there must be 50 guys with a camera who are paid to
show up at the wedding. Some are weekenders, some are "wannabees"
and some have studios and are members of PPA (which, at worst,
means absolutely nothing).
I think your friend who does "amazing" work might qualify as a pro.
Sorry you've got your panties in a wad, but consider the
perspective of those who do wedding photography for their
liveliehood. Wedding photography has gone through many revolutions
since the days wedding formals of the B&G being taken with 8x10's(I
have some negs to prove it). Every revolution has reduced the cost
of being a wedding photographer, both in technical expertise and in
equipment. The shift to digital is the lastest and one of the
biggest changes. Digital includes not only cameras, but also
ancilliary equipment. For a couple of hundred bucks, anyone can
buy a scanner and printer that will provide them with high quality
copies of a photograph. Wedding photographers are getting
squeezed by both avid amateurs with sophisticated equipment who
give away their photos and by the rampant copying of proofs and
prints by the customer.
Wedding photography as it existed in the 70's, 80's and early 90's
is gone. At best, the full time wedding photographer will have to
change their entire business model. At worst they won't survive.
While avid amateurs have been a fact of life for 30 or 40 years,
digital has significantly increased their numbers and their threat.
It is understandable for some pros to regard them as the "enemy"
and make snide remarks. You also need to realize, as I learned in
the 20 years as a pro (mostly commercial, but some weddings), a
significant portion of the avid amateurs are just plain PITAs.
Doug