There may be another option that is consistent with the two most common uses of the term: "bokeh" = "blur for the portions of the photo outside the DOF" or "OOF blur", for short.
Yikes, do we have to wind this all the way back to the beginning?
The argument has
always been over whether the definition, in English, is simply "blur" or whether it's "quality of blur". People have been arguing this point for 15 years on these forums.
What you are calling "OOF blur" is what I have called "defocus blur" in about 15 posts on this thread and the other thread in the past two days. Honestly, GB, I'm feeling ignored here. We may have to go to counseling over this.
The Japanese use the term "boke" to mean "defocus blur" -- i.e. blur in the out-of-focus areas of an image formed by a lens. The question has always been whether, in English, we have decided to use the transliterated term "bokeh" to mean something different -- i.e. "quality of blur", which the Japanese call "boke-aji".
I laid this all out in some detail in this post, which you replied to! GB, my friend, I really am feeling like you're not hearing what I'm saying. After all we've been through together!
Here is Mike Johnston addressing the question in 2009. (Mike Johnston was the editor of Photo Techniques when it published the articles that popularized the term "bokeh" in the English-speaking world.)
Mike says "bokeh" means, simply, "blur" or "out-of-focus blur". Apparently, that's the view of the writers who brought the term into use in English.
However, somewhere very soon after they published their articles, the idea got firmly established among some vocal photographers that "bokeh" means, not just blur, but quality of blur. And that definition is the one that was used by the Oxford English Dictionary when they first included the word "bokeh" in 2003.
All along, there have been other photographers who used the term to mean simply, blur. Hence this raging controversy, which you appear to believe you just solved

Welcome to the party, my friend! Sorry the food and the good booze are already gone!