Hoping someone can help me understand the roles of these and how they interact and how you know which one to adjust, after all photography is largely about getting the right amount of light into the camera, what makes you choose to adjust the iso setting over the shutter speed for example. Also why would you choose a narrow aperture that doesn't let a lot of light instead one that lets more light in and just adjust the shutter speed and iso accordingly?
Aperture and shutter speed are your primary creative controls. Select an f-stop (aperture) to control the depth of field in your photo: how much of the scene will appear to be in focus. Select a shutter speed to determine how movement in the scene will be rendered. Motion will be some degree of frozen or blurred.
Aperture and shutter speed also control exposure: the light energy per unit area projected by the lens upon the sensor. Exposure and the surface area of the sensor determine how much total light the camera has to work with. Total light goes a long way toward deciding qualities like dynamic range, noise visibility and color fidelity in a photo.
The general approach I recommend photographers adopt is to use the largest aperture (smallest f-stop number) that produces an adequate depth of field and the slowest shutter speed that acceptably renders movement in the frame without blowing out important highlights.
If you embrace this approach, you'll optimize exposure within the creative constraints of the photo you want to make. That's usually going to produce a pleasing image.
So, how do you start? I recommend starting by deciding which of those two creative/exposure controls is the highest priority for the photo being made. Depth of field (aperture) is probably the highest priority if you're photographing a landscape or making a portrait. Shutter speed is probably the highest priority if you're photographing action...objects or people in motion.
Once you've identified that setting and dialed it in, the other setting can be chosen based on the dual goals of achieving a desired creative look and optimizing exposure.
Finally, there's ISO. ISO is the setting we use to manage the lightness of the photo. ISO doesn't control how much light the camera works with so, it's not an exposure setting. It's used to ensure the camera processes and outputs a photo having a pleasing lightness.
ISO is also useful as an
indicator of exposure. It's the proverbial canary in the coal mine. It doesn't make the air unsafe to breathe but when the canary drops, you know it's time to get out! ISO doesn't make photos noisy but when ISO climbs too high, you know an adjustment to f-stop or shutter speed is needed to increase exposure and make a photo having an acceptable amount of noise.
Which of those two settings should you adjust if the exposure at your preferred settings is too weak? As a general rule, I'd recommend starting with the lower priority setting. Keep your creative goals in mind while making the adjustment.
If you've selected the widest aperture that will deliver an acceptable depth of field for a landscape photo, slow the shutter speed to increase exposure. Most landscapes are static scenes. Slowing the shutter speed won't introduce motion blur, provided the camera is on a tripod or some form of stabilization is in use.
If you've chosen the slowest shutter speed that will adequately freeze movement in the frame, open the lens aperture to allow more light to get through to the sensor. If you're photographing sports, a shallow depth of field helps isolate the subject and makes the background less of a distraction.
There will eventually come a time when you've chosen the widest usable f-stop and the slowest usable shutter speed and exposure will still be too weak. The photo being made will be too noisy. What do you do? You get creative
Sometimes, the photo we want to make isn't doable with the available light. If that's the case, it may seem your only option is to pack up and go home. There is another option: make a different photo. This is part of a person's growth as a photographer. The ability to recognize when there's not enough light for the photo we want to make and to adapt, to make a different photo that is doable with the available light, is as useful a tool to have in your back pocket as any. It empowers you to make a photo under almost any conditions.
Something you'll learn pretty quickly is that experience informs future decisions. I know the f-stop and shutter speed settings I'll use in just about any lighting to photograph wildlife, birds, landscapes, people, sports and other subjects before I leave my house. I know these settings because I've made thousands of photos of each of those subjects in a wide range of light conditions. That experience - including successes and mistakes - has taught me what works and what doesn't. Trust that the same will happen for you. It just takes time and reps.
Good luck and enjoy getting to know your new camera.