Hi Rob,
Like you I search for a lighter kit.
Yesterday I wife and daughter went out on a little two hour photo excursion.
I pulled out my D700/Grip and 24-70. Also took along a few other lenses. My 14-24, 70-300vr, and a 70-180 Micro just in case.
Before we left I pulled out my daughters Oly she had at school. It was an E-300 with two kit lenses. I had to find her charger and battery. Clean off her lenses, she was missing caps etc. She was going to shoot the Oly. Well let me tell you the camera worked and felt like a toy, period.
Once you shoot with a pro camera such as a Nikon 200/300 series, a D1/D2/D3 series or the D700 you will have a very difficult time going back to so so gear. Your lens stable was spectacular so you will have to get used to images that are not at the same level of quality.
I thought of a D7000. Lighter, smaller, well built with all of the bells and whistles, glass pentaprism etc. It is the glass that frustrates me. Nikon does not have a stable of compact pro glass for the DX line. You can get a 12-24, 17-55 and a 70-300vr and be well covered. But that is a big kit for someone who is liiking to downsize. I did have an 18-200vr on my D700 years ago, it was a easy package to carry, but the image quality always made me yearn for more.
I think we older shooters need lenses with a large aperture to make up for the smaller pentaprism. I am going to suggest the D7000 and the 17-55mm as your main kit. (Remember this will give you a FX field of view of 26mm to 83mm) You can always get the ultra wide angle at a later date. For tele I have no experience with any of Nikons DX tele zooms. In my case, I can use my 70-180 Micro Nikkor as my tele. However, this lenses strength is in the Macro end. As mentioned above, you are used to performance so mid level performance may not satisfy you.
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Regards,
Jeff Morris / Homecinemaman
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