Evening Mako,
Thank you for providing more context and information, but as far as I am concerned, as well as how blur is defined on many sites online, and when using Chatgpt plus, etc., blur and bokeh do not mean the same thing whatsoever.
I guess the takeaway is that bokeh obviously means different things to different people. But its pretty clear to me that when Wikipedia, and many other sites that pop up when you query bokeh, you get photos almost exclusively with some sort of "bokeh balls".
When I put a several of my images (including the photo you liked) into Chatgpt plus, with various degrees of out of focus backgrounds, with flowers or a bird in the foreground, it responded like this:
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Yes. You can tell because the background is smoothly blurred, with no distinct shapes or details visible. The subject (the cluster of orange flowers) is sharply in focus, while the green foliage behind it has a soft, creamy blur — that’s classic bokeh, an optical effect created by a shallow depth of field and a wide aperture.
So, while every out-of-focus area isn’t necessarily “bokeh,” in this case the blur is smooth and aesthetically pleasing — a good example of bokeh in flower photography.
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AI took the low road with the definition, in my opinion.
When one Google's "photos with bokeh", you get answers like these sites, not sites with just out of focus background photos. I suspect there's a good reason for that, which is because that's what people think bokeh looks like. And that's what bokeh looks like to me, of course, not at all like my photo you liked or the ones I originally posted on the Z site thread when I was asking for a good bokeh lens:
https://speckyboy.com/beautiful-bokeh-photography/
https://iso.500px.com/30-beautiful-bokeh-images-to-capture-your-imagination/
Best to you
Den