I'm cautious enough about visiting anywhere far from home that I don't ever want to run into that one officer who would feel insulted by a tip. Maybe I've watched to many documentaries about life in foreign prisons. :-(
My first experience with the reverse situation was a police officer pulling over select vehicles (rental cars) on a deserted stretch of highway in Costa Rica.
As we talked it slowly started feeling like he wanted a bribe, I was so young and dumb he had to coach me through it. lol I kept thinking, does he want a bribe? and then you have that fear of, well what if I'm wrong and offering it gets me in more trouble...is this real? am I just imagining it?
after about 5 minutes of repeating himself, he started showing me his unfilled-out ticket pad and motioning with his pencil to it as if he was going to write on it and then stopping and looking at me with a "well?"...
I was now a little more sure he wanted a bribe, but again you start questioning yourself and the situation... what if this is his game to trap me, get me to offer a bribe then he arrests me, maybe this is what he is trying to do all along!
By this point he was basically saying - listen we take care of the ticket here and save you a trip to the judge, I make it cheaper here too, okay? followed by a wide ear-to-ear grin.
By now he was basically hitting the naive gringo over the head with the obvious but I was still only about 50% sure lol
Now he is almost winking at me, was that a wink? I think he winked at me...This has got to be him asking for a bribe! But is it?
He finally said something like, listen, you pay me $X amount now and you go. I felt safer now since he was basically asking me to "pay the ticket" and he was presenting the bribe amount.
I said, how much again? It converted to something like $200.
I felt more confident for some reason and though okay we are in this now, this should be negotiable and started negotiating which he was happy to do, I think he was finally relieved that the gringo finally understood this game and his payday was on the horizon.
I think we negotiated to around $30.00, gave him the money and I think he shook his head and rolled his eyes as he walked away probably going to be telling his wife that night about how the gringos are getting dumber every day.
We drove off looking at each other, like did that really just happen? Yep.