Engaging a person
I understand that this post will be the most ‘polysemantic’ so to say.
Of course, some methods or tips which can help a photographer in one country (Russia, where I live, for example) can be used with some caution in another (Germany), or cannot be used at all (Saudi Arabia, or Egypt). So, taking into consideration that we live in different countries with different traditions, I nevertheless think that I can share with you some of things I do here.
At least, in case you’ll visit the city of Voronezh, Russia, where I live, work and take photos, you’ll know what to do
I myself use different approaches, and the people could be either unknown or known to me.
Sometimes I see my future 'model' but I notice that it's not the right time or place for my approach. In this case I try to become acquainted only. I have my business cards with me, with my photo gallery address and phone number.
I think that such a card (with email, web, phone and your name and maybe your photo) plays an important role.
And my friend Vladimir – a pro photographer, who worked in Israel, Russia and other countries for a long time agree with me.
Unknown.
The overwhelming majority of my portraits are of unknown to me people, whom I meet on the streets, at café, hospitals. With some of them, after our sessions, I continue relations and even have some new friends.
I tend to walk around looking at the people around me with a friendly, open look, filled with interest. And when I see a 'potential' model, I never hide my emotions. Yes, I understand, it is hard to make a first step and start talking.
And the fact of talking with unknown person itself might be strange in your country. But… If you have a friendly look, REAL interest in your eyes, no ‘Stone in your bosom’ as we say here, then why not make this first step?
Model’s eyes are of my special interest. You might have heard the term “Yuri’s eyes”. It is true. Exactly eyes attract my attention first. And people feel this.
Whatever you do, you’ll have eyes contact with your future model first. And in my case, I have A FEELING. Name it intuition but I think that EYES SAY ALL!
What to do next? Depending on your feelings.
You may draw aside your look, if something tells you ‘Oh, no…’
Or,
You can make a first step.
I am keen on psychology, and though it is not my profession and I have no special education, I’ve read and read now a lot of books.
Reading some psychology books will be my advice to you.
There is an approach of ‘triune sentence’.
1 part ‘I understand that…’
2 part ‘still/ but/ at the same time….’
3 part ‘It’s you to decide though’
In the first part you say that you understand your ‘interlocutor’, in the second – what you want. The third pass the decision to the one you talk with.
For example
I understand that it looks strange that I start talking with you, but I am an amateur photographer and after I saw your beautiful eyes, I imagined what a wonderful photograph portrait could be done, if you don’t mind. It is you to decide, though.
(Book: How To Deal With Your Acting Up Teenager Bayard, Robert T)
After your first steps of conversation, you can receive one of three answers: 'Yes'(Or so) / 'No (or so)' / 'Later' (or so) Must say that I have received 'No' very rarely – must be only five or ten times. I often heard 'Oh, I am not that photogenic…' – that's an encouraging answer, and it's my turn to say that its not true…
It was not easy for me to stick to people in the streets, when I started. But I did it.
It is very important: you must have REAL FEELINGS and you must LOOK INTO the EYES.
We are not alone on this planet. We have co-workers, neighbours. We visit the same places with the same maintenance staff.
At list, sure you have your relatives and friends. You have relatives of your friends. And so on. Try to talk to them and ask to be your models.
More shots, more practice – more experience…
I usually give my 'models' CDs with photo session's results. And present them several 30x45 cm prints. If you are not so 'rich'

you can limit yourself with CD only.
And…
I always have a model release with me, and ask to sign it. I try to do this before shooting…
Yes, you can also do this later, before posting/printing. But you must HAVE A RELEASE.
HOMEWORK: Find yourself a model, who will help you to take portraits.
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Spasibo,
Yuri
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