I'm in the same boat. Want to take pictures of the kids. Hence, I'm researching right now and am about to pull the trigger. It looks like the Canon 450D is the camera to beat. I thought the Nikon D40 would be a good start, too, but I could just feel the urge to upgrade by looking at the paucity of features compared to the 450D (and any other current-gen budget DSLR for that matter). If you're a pro who can do DOF and exposure calculations in your head, then the D40 is sufficient. Me, I need all the hand-holding and convenience I can buy. I will grow into the advanced stuff, no doubt though it would take some time and effort.
When it comes to cameras, I think it would be best just to get the newest and most feature-packed camera one can afford at the time because life is too short and the kids grow up too fast to go through the hassle of upgrading and obsessing over camera choices again. I think the word "overkill" is used too much around here, as if a person new to photography could never grow into a pro-level camera in a short period of time. Just smacks of elitism to me.
When it comes to cameras, I think it would be best just to get the newest and most feature-packed camera one can afford at the time because life is too short and the kids grow up too fast to go through the hassle of upgrading and obsessing over camera choices again. I think the word "overkill" is used too much around here, as if a person new to photography could never grow into a pro-level camera in a short period of time. Just smacks of elitism to me.