Seems a bit odd to me that all 4 would go red at exactly the same time even if you bought them all on the same day and were the same lot just because battery life isn't that precise. Also, I'm guessing you didn't drain each battery to 100% with each use before charging.
I wonder if you have a bum charger -- maybe because of a surge or something. If you shop at a local dealer, maybe ask if you test your batteries on one of their chargers.
Just anecdotally, I have 3 E6NH batteries, one that came with the R5 (2020) and two that I bought in mid-2021. I have these marked "1", "2", "3", so I can rotate them but I don't know which is the 2020 battery. I typically only use 1 battery per outing (200-1200 shots, depending on what I'm shooting, i.e., shooting speed). Avg. outings per month is 10, so use each battery about 3 times per month. Typically use 75%-100% battery then fully recharge. I have not noticed decreased life yet