1, This is a grey metal office drawer cabinet, very ugly and should get rid of it, but it's very grey, not white.
I think we're getting to the heart of your misunderstanding. You appear to think that at any given camera exposure everything should be rendered correctly. In that backlit scene, it absolutely will not be, because some of it is being directly lit, some not lit at all except by ambient bounce. The exposure the camera (or you) picked overexposes the counter and underexposes the detail in the cup.
If we were in the film era, I'd tell you to study Ansel Adams' Zone System, which was how he came to grips with the problem you're not quite understanding here.
I'll tell a story about my late mentor, Galen Rowell, that relates. When NatGeo originally wanted to do a story about these California climbers that were doing something no one had heard about before (climbing El Capitan, North Dome, etc.), they first tried to get one of the contract pros to do the story. When he figured out what was involved in hanging off a cliff to get the photos necessary, he declined. NatGeo eventually hired one of the climbers, Galen, to take photos.
When he submitted them, he got roasted, badly, by the photo editors. For the very same things you're not seeing here: variable contrast with different lighting sources. Some of the sunlit rock was blown out. The shadow side of the climbers was underexposed. The list went on.
This experience led Galen to come up with things to solve his exposure issues. First, fill flash (his famous -1.7EV fill setting). Later graduated ND filters (Singh-Ray Galen Rowell series).
In other words, he controlled what the light was doing vis-a-vis his subjects (even if they were a mountain).