’A punch in the gut’: Wedding videographer refuses business to same-sex couple in Colorado(article)

Yeah, that's a nice Goebbels.
Oh, you get away with this because you are a moderator? Nice. Insult rather than actually discuss, typical, but unfortunate.
I'm not a moderator in this forum. I've actually had a few posts deleted here. 😂

But you were the one to insult.
Going back to the wedding photo issue. The freedom for one to discriminate impinges upon the freedom of another to exist equally. So, in reality, you are advocating for the freedom of people like you, not the freedom of everyone.
Negative, because no one has an inherent right to my services.

If someone opens a business and discriminates against me, that's fine. I'll go elsewhere.
Again, you fail to comprehend or choose not to because reality interferes with your fantasy.
Another Goebbels.
 
Yeah, that's a nice Goebbels.
Oh, you get away with this because you are a moderator? Nice. Insult rather than actually discuss, typical, but unfortunate.
I'm not a moderator in this forum. I've actually had a few posts deleted here. 😂

But you were the one to insult.
I have dealt with your posts and position, which is quite different to attack the person. Your argument is stupid is different to you are stupid.

I'd rather your post not be deleted, a record of your posting is better witness.
Going back to the wedding photo issue. The freedom for one to discriminate impinges upon the freedom of another to exist equally. So, in reality, you are advocating for the freedom of people like you, not the freedom of everyone.
Negative, because no one has an inherent right to my services.

If someone opens a business and discriminates against me, that's fine. I'll go elsewhere.
Again, you fail to comprehend or choose not to because reality interferes with your fantasy.
Another Goebbels.
As you fail to engage beyond slogans and insults, inaccurate ones at that, you are not worth my further time.
 
Yeah, that's a nice Goebbels.
Oh, you get away with this because you are a moderator? Nice. Insult rather than actually discuss, typical, but unfortunate.
I'm not a moderator in this forum. I've actually had a few posts deleted here. 😂

But you were the one to insult.
I have dealt with your posts and position, which is quite different to attack the person. Your argument is stupid is different to you are stupid.

I'd rather your post not be deleted, a record of your posting is better witness.
Yikes. If by 'dealt with' you mean misconstrued and sometimes outright ignored, then sure, you've 'dealt with' it.

We both want to live in functional societies. We both want versions of government to maintain some aspects of those societies. But we differ on which specific aspects, and we both think the other's argument is stupid. What's the point in additional conversation?
Going back to the wedding photo issue. The freedom for one to discriminate impinges upon the freedom of another to exist equally. So, in reality, you are advocating for the freedom of people like you, not the freedom of everyone.
Negative, because no one has an inherent right to my services.

If someone opens a business and discriminates against me, that's fine. I'll go elsewhere.
Again, you fail to comprehend or choose not to because reality interferes with your fantasy.
Another Goebbels.
As you fail to engage beyond slogans and insults, inaccurate ones at that, you are not worth my further time.
Only one of us has insulted the other. You've called me delusional, out of touch with reality, etc. I've simply argued my position. Then you accuse me of insulting you when I point that out. Ironic. And typical.

The sad part is that we probably agree on many positions, but we'd never be able to find those because you would rather dismiss than discuss.

Have a good day.
 
Saying that you disagree with something is not hate speech, nor does it incite violence.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence. It mightn't be fair, but it is how human behaviour works.
Couldn't possibly disagree more strongly.

This conversation, like nearly all political conversations, comes down to one thing: individualism vs collectivism. I'm a staunch individualist. You are not.
Actually, not true. What I am is someone who understands what it takes to run a society.
A society the way YOU want it. I want society to look differently. I want maximum individual liberty and minimum government instrusion. Simple as that. You want the government to be bigger so that it can enforce your rules.
The primary purpose of government is to resolve conflict between people. You want to play loud music at 1am, I want to sleep.

Frequently the choices one person makes will affect others. Sometimes the interaction isn't always obvious. For instance I may want a fire department on call in case my house catches fire. You may not mind if your house burns down, but your house burning down can create a fire that spreads, which makes it a danger to others.

Some rules are there simply to make life easier for everyone. Something as simple as agreeing which side of the street we should drive on makes driving better for everyone.

Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.

Zero-sum, black/white, this or that thinking is easy, but rarely correct.
 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.

Zero-sum, black/white, this or that thinking is easy, but rarely correct.
Yes. it's not an easy issue.
 
Saying that you disagree with something is not hate speech, nor does it incite violence.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence. It mightn't be fair, but it is how human behaviour works.
Couldn't possibly disagree more strongly.

This conversation, like nearly all political conversations, comes down to one thing: individualism vs collectivism. I'm a staunch individualist. You are not.
Actually, not true. What I am is someone who understands what it takes to run a society.
A society the way YOU want it. I want society to look differently. I want maximum individual liberty and minimum government instrusion. Simple as that. You want the government to be bigger so that it can enforce your rules.
The primary purpose of government is to resolve conflict between people. You want to play loud music at 1am, I want to sleep.
Correct. The point at which fist meets face.
Frequently the choices one person makes will affect others. Sometimes the interaction isn't always obvious. For instance I may want a fire department on call in case my house catches fire. You may not mind if your house burns down, but your house burning down can create a fire that spreads, which makes it a danger to others.
True. How did we deal with it prior to the creation of state level funding for such needs?
Some rules are there simply to make life easier for everyone. Something as simple as agreeing which side of the street we should drive on makes driving better for everyone.

Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
I couldn't agree more.
 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
Anytime you single out a group for special treatment, you institute a governmental position that is inherently unjust. Egalitarianism is the only just position.
Zero-sum, black/white, this or that thinking is easy, but rarely correct.
Right. Which is why we need baseline standards. But agreeing on them is... difficult.
 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
Anytime you single out a group for special treatment, you institute a governmental position that is inherently unjust. Egalitarianism is the only just position.
Not necessarily. The basis of capitalism is that those that contribute more to society should be given special treatment (i.e. more rewards).

Capitalism rewards with money, and those with money certainly get "special" treatment. Someone with a lot of money can eat better food, can live in a nicer house, can have someone else mow his lawn, etc.

Certainly, US society gives special treatment to celebrities. If a celebrity walks into a restaurant that has a long waiting line, the celebrity may get seated before those who were already waiting.

Now if you are talking about singling out a group of people based on race, creed color, religion, etc., then that's a different matter.

But that raises a different issue. It is clear that there has been some unfair treatment in the past, and the affects are still affecting members of those classes. What is the "fair" way of handling this? Should we ignore the lingering effects of past discrimination, or should we try to compensate for these past wrongs?

While some think there are simple and obvious answers, it actually is a complex situation. One can make a good case that the fair and just solution is to single out these groups, and try to compensate for past wrongs. Once can also make a case that the fair solution is not single out any group.

Neither solution is perfect.
Zero-sum, black/white, this or that thinking is easy, but rarely correct.
Right. Which is why we need baseline standards. But agreeing on them is... difficult.
The first step is that one should be able to have a polite and reasonable discussion with people who have a very different point of view. Sometimes they may actually have a reasonable point to add. Unfortunately, there seems to be too many people in this world who prefer to attack those who feel differently. This sort of attitude seems to be plaguing US politics at the moment.
 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
Anytime you single out a group for special treatment, you institute a governmental position that is inherently unjust. Egalitarianism is the only just position.
Not necessarily. The basis of capitalism is that those that contribute more to society should be given special treatment (i.e. more rewards).
From the market, yes, not the government. The government has an obligation to treat every citizen equally. Your next three paragraphs are all market forces. I'm cutting those out for brevity.
But that raises a different issue. It is clear that there has been some unfair treatment in the past, and the affects are still affecting members of those classes. What is the "fair" way of handling this? Should we ignore the lingering effects of past discrimination, or should we try to compensate for these past wrongs?
No. The only thing we should do is make sure that we do the right thing NOW. The right thing is egalitarianism.
While some think there are simple and obvious answers, it actually is a complex situation. One can make a good case that the fair and just solution is to single out these groups, and try to compensate for past wrongs. Once can also make a case that the fair solution is not single out any group.

Neither solution is perfect.
There are simple answers. Extremely difficult to do, but very simple.
Zero-sum, black/white, this or that thinking is easy, but rarely correct.
Right. Which is why we need baseline standards. But agreeing on them is... difficult.
The first step is that one should be able to have a polite and reasonable discussion with people who have a very different point of view. Sometimes they may actually have a reasonable point to add. Unfortunately, there seems to be too many people in this world who prefer to attack those who feel differently. This sort of attitude seems to be plaguing US politics at the moment.
Agree, and something I do very regularly. Doesn't hurt that I enjoy such conversations. However, I find that most of the time it goes the way this way did. At least one side devolves into tell the other side that they are delusional, ignorant, etc. I find this happens most commonly when the insulting party has no logical responses to a position OR simply cannot comprehend anyone holding that position.

I can intellectually understand collectivism. I understand why some people believe it's something to be striven for. I understand why many would feel comforted by a large central presence making sure that everything is done 'right'. I understand why people feel bad for groups who have, historically, been thought of or treated poorly. I understand all of that.

Just because I happen to disagree with those positions is irrelevant to whether I can understand them intellectually.

A photographer who has religious convictions, or just random biases he inherited from his family, or whatever, is still an individual. His services are his own. Those services are inherently his property, and no one has a right to his property. No matter how distasteful I find his positions, I would argue to the death for his right to hold them. As long as he doesn't harm me or my property (and denying a service is neither), he has a right to them. Simple as that.
 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
Anytime you single out a group for special treatment, you institute a governmental position that is inherently unjust. Egalitarianism is the only just position.
Not necessarily. The basis of capitalism is that those that contribute more to society should be given special treatment (i.e. more rewards).
From the market, yes, not the government. The government has an obligation to treat every citizen equally. Your next three paragraphs are all market forces. I'm cutting those out for brevity.
I think that's a position that needs at least a little justification. Why shouldn't a rich community get better police than a poor community?

I think government services are not available to all citizens equally, but vary depending on wealth.
But that raises a different issue. It is clear that there has been some unfair treatment in the past, and the affects are still affecting members of those classes. What is the "fair" way of handling this? Should we ignore the lingering effects of past discrimination, or should we try to compensate for these past wrongs?
No. The only thing we should do is make sure that we do the right thing NOW. The right thing is egalitarianism.
I agree that in a perfect world we would make things equal today.

But we don't live in a perfect world, and it's a serious question as to what should be done about the inequalities of the past. Those who discriminated against stereotypically feel differently than those who benefited.

But let's do a little thought exercise. Suppose a certain group of people were treated unfairly. Suppose that over the past 10 years, they were taxed a rate 5% higher than everyone else. What is the "just and fair" remedy for this situation?

We could simply stop the discrepancy, and from now on, make sure that everyone is taxed at the same rate. However those who were taxed at the lower rate are likely to have more possessions, or more savings. This means the repercussions of the over-taxation live on, even after the taxes are equalized. On the surface letting one group keep 10 years of extra accumulations hardly seems "equal".

We could swap the tax rates so that for the next 10 years the other group pays the higher tax rate. However differential tax rates hardly seems "equal".

We could refund the additional taxes that were charged. Now both groups have the same tax rate, but one group didn't have use of the money for 10 years. That hardly seems equal.

I'm not saying that I know what the right answer is, but I am saying that there isn't a simple answer that is obvious equal treatment of everyone. Once you are in a situation where there have been inequalities, there is not always a clear path to making the world "equal" again.

 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
Anytime you single out a group for special treatment, you institute a governmental position that is inherently unjust. Egalitarianism is the only just position.
Not necessarily. The basis of capitalism is that those that contribute more to society should be given special treatment (i.e. more rewards).
From the market, yes, not the government. The government has an obligation to treat every citizen equally. Your next three paragraphs are all market forces. I'm cutting those out for brevity.
I think that's a position that needs at least a little justification. Why shouldn't a rich community get better police than a poor community?
Perhaps we are at a disconnect. I'm referring to the federal government, which does not provide police forces. Likewise, state governments do not provide police forces, either. That falls to local government, and local government is, well, local. So each local community will provide police forces they feel sufficient for their community.
I think government services are not available to all citizens equally, but vary depending on wealth.
That should never be the case.
But that raises a different issue. It is clear that there has been some unfair treatment in the past, and the affects are still affecting members of those classes. What is the "fair" way of handling this? Should we ignore the lingering effects of past discrimination, or should we try to compensate for these past wrongs?
No. The only thing we should do is make sure that we do the right thing NOW. The right thing is egalitarianism.
I agree that in a perfect world we would make things equal today.

But we don't live in a perfect world, and it's a serious question as to what should be done about the inequalities of the past. Those who discriminated against stereotypically feel differently than those who benefited.
What *specific* people are you referring to? It's hard to speak specifically without any details.
But let's do a little thought exercise. Suppose a certain group of people were treated unfairly. Suppose that over the past 10 years, they were taxed a rate 5% higher than everyone else. What is the "just and fair" remedy for this situation?
Oh, so like the current rich population, who IS taxed at a higher rate? Should they be compensated now?

No. Those were the laws, they were followed. They were sucky laws, but they were the laws. The only reasonable way forward is to change the laws and move on.
We could simply stop the discrepancy, and from now on, make sure that everyone is taxed at the same rate. However those who were taxed at the lower rate are likely to have more possessions, or more savings. This means the repercussions of the over-taxation live on, even after the taxes are equalized. On the surface letting one group keep 10 years of extra accumulations hardly seems "equal".
Life isn't fair. Bad stuff happens. Best we can do is avoid more bad stuff happening.
 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
(italics mine) The smallest minority is the individual. No need to form a group.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence.
That is, or should be, an absolutely terrifying statement. With that in play, one cannot even disapprove of something they disagree with.

Time for some people to re-read "1984", and for those who prefer lessons from reality vs. insightfully-didactic fiction, "The Gulag Archipelago". There's a recent fiftieth anniversary edition, abridged for consumability.

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"THINK" - Watson
 
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Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
(italics mine) The smallest minority is the individual. No need to form a group.
That is NOT how it works.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence.
That is, or should be, an absolutely terrifying statement. With that in play, one cannot even disapprove of something they disagree with.
I did not say people cannot disapprove. Of course they can, that is also how things change. But it doesn't change that intolerance is a spectrum, not an on or off thing. Life is not zero-sum.
Time for some people to re-read "1984", and for those who prefer lessons from reality vs. insightfully-didactic fiction, "The Gulag Archipelago". There's a recent fiftieth anniversary edition, abridged for consumability.
Just wow. Wanting people to have equal treatment and recognising the government must be part of that means totalitarianism or oppressive communism? Not even close.
 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
(italics mine) The smallest minority is the individual. No need to form a group.
That is NOT how it works.
It should be. And shouting (all caps) does not help.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence.
That is, or should be, an absolutely terrifying statement. With that in play, one cannot even disapprove of something they disagree with.
I did not say people cannot disapprove.
I interpret your statement "Disapproval supports hate which supports violence" to draw a direct line from violence to disapproval, and therefore to a prohibition of disapproval.
Of course they can, that is also how things change. But it doesn't change that intolerance is a spectrum, not an on or off thing. Life is not zero-sum.
Time for some people to re-read "1984", and for those who prefer lessons from reality vs. insightfully-didactic fiction, "The Gulag Archipelago". There's a recent fiftieth anniversary edition, abridged for consumability.
Just wow. Wanting people to have equal treatment and recognising the government must be part of that means totalitarianism or oppressive communism?
No, wanting disapproval to be prohibited means totalitarianism or oppressive communism. Although "oppressive communism" is a redundant statement - "oppressive" is implicit, through it's inevitability, in communism.

I've said my piece, and will bow out.

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"THINK" - Watson
 
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Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
(italics mine) The smallest minority is the individual. No need to form a group.
That is NOT how it works.
It should be.
I'm not sure why it should be, but is definitely isn't. We are parts of groups who look/believe/live near/share culture/etc us.
And shouting (all caps) does not help.
Generally, caps as shouting is when it is all caps, that was meant as emphasis.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence.
That is, or should be, an absolutely terrifying statement. With that in play, one cannot even disapprove of something they disagree with.
I did not say people cannot disapprove.
I interpret your statement "Disapproval supports hate which supports violence" to draw a direct line from violence to disapproval, and therefore to a prohibition of disapproval.
If you interpreted, then fair enough. If you still interpret so, you are incorrect.
Just wow. Wanting people to have equal treatment and recognising the government must be part of that means totalitarianism or oppressive communism?
No, wanting disapproval to be prohibited means totalitarianism or oppressive communism.
Again, not what I am saying.
Although "oppressive communism" is a redundant statement - "oppressive" is implicit, through it's inevitability, in communism.
I am not a fan of communism, but I think that simplistic.
 
Personally, I think we should have the minimum amount of government that we need, and not the maximum that we can think of. The challenge is that reasonable people can disagree as to what constitutes a minimum level of government.
It is not a zero-sum thing regardless. People, especially minority groups, can feel both benefit and deficit by the very same government.
(italics mine) The smallest minority is the individual. No need to form a group.
That is NOT how it works.
It should be. And shouting (all caps) does not help.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence.
That is, or should be, an absolutely terrifying statement. With that in play, one cannot even disapprove of something they disagree with.
I did not say people cannot disapprove.
I interpret your statement "Disapproval supports hate which supports violence" to draw a direct line from violence to disapproval, and therefore to a prohibition of disapproval.
Of course they can, that is also how things change. But it doesn't change that intolerance is a spectrum, not an on or off thing. Life is not zero-sum.
Time for some people to re-read "1984", and for those who prefer lessons from reality vs. insightfully-didactic fiction, "The Gulag Archipelago". There's a recent fiftieth anniversary edition, abridged for consumability.
Just wow. Wanting people to have equal treatment and recognising the government must be part of that means totalitarianism or oppressive communism?
No, wanting disapproval to be prohibited means totalitarianism or oppressive communism. Although "oppressive communism" is a redundant statement - "oppressive" is implicit, through it's inevitability, in communism.

I've said my piece, and will bow out.
 
There is a widespread effort to shut down all voices that disagree with the hard left narrative. Disagree is reframed as hate every day on college campuses nationwide. Disagreement is often met with violence, even.
No, no there's not. What is this the Fox News forum?
 
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But let's do a little thought exercise. Suppose a certain group of people were treated unfairly. Suppose that over the past 10 years, they were taxed a rate 5% higher than everyone else. What is the "just and fair" remedy for this situation?
Oh, so like the current rich population, who IS taxed at a higher rate? Should they be compensated now?

No. Those were the laws, they were followed. They were sucky laws, but they were the laws. The only reasonable way forward is to change the laws and move on.
We disagree. I don't think the situation is as clear cut as you suggest. While I don't pretend to know the best solution, there are clearly factors that make the situation complicated.

For instance, a tax assessor in a small town has some leeway to use his personal judgement in how he handles various homes. If the tax assessor did not like a certain minority group, he could assess their homes at a higher value, resulting in them paying higher taxes. Assume the tax assessor has been doing this for about 10 years.

Someone notices the difference in assessed value and asks the tax assessor about. He readily admits that he assesses homes belonging to that minority a higher value as he doesn't like them, and wants to make it more expensive for them to live in his town (perhaps they will move away).

How would you remedy the situation?

Do we simply say the past is the past, and going forward assessments will be blind to minority status?

Do we return money to those who were overcharged? Do we give them a lower tax rate for the next 10 years? Do we charged those who were not overcharged a surcharge to compensate?

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Let's make this easier. It turns out a bank had a programing error in the software that manages their mortgage portfolio. Banks typically handle paying the home insurance premiums, and bill the customers over the year. For the past 10 years the bank has been overcharging customers for insurance premiums and keeping the difference.

Obviously, once the bank finds the problem they correct the software and going forward, there will be no further overcharges.

As the bank has fixed the situation, and everything is now fair, should the bank be able to keep the hundreds of thousands they have made from overcharges? After all, the past is the past.

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I agree that ideally minority status shouldn't be a factor. However, it is not unreasonable to consider the concept of making up for past errors.
 
There is a widespread effort to shut down all voices that disagree with the hard left narrative. Disagree is reframed as hate every day on college campuses nationwide. Disagreement is often met with violence, even.
No, no there's not. What is this the Fox News forum?
OK, I predict this thread will not last much longer. But much of what drives Fox news is what drives these irrational comparisons. Fear. The fear of people who feel their place is threatened by allowing others to have the same rights as they. It is a common human issue. One of the complications is that much of it is subconscious. We are not rational creatures, but creatures with the ability to reason. And this is an important difference.

Equal marriage is no threat to straight marriage. In fact, the former includes the latter.

Offering a service ≠ endorsing one's client's lives.

The failure of those who agree with the discriminating photographer fail to address the history of discrimination and how progress has actually been made is telling. Likely ignorance and/or inconvenience.

ETA: The people in these cases who want to be able to discriminate are typically hypocritical. They say they only want to represent their values, but do not vet straight couples to ascertain whether the couple meets those values.
 
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