’A punch in the gut’: Wedding videographer refuses business to same-sex couple in Colorado(article)

There isn't a good way out of this kind of thing. Who's rights prevail?

I personally think it is reprehensible that people get denied services because the business owner is allowed to claim that the request by the LGBT individual(s) would violate religious beliefs. I think it's a poorly-concealed act of hate masquerading as a religious issue.

HOWEVER . . .

Turn the situation around . . .

A couple who openly professes white nationalism comes into your cake shop and wants to order a cake for their wedding. They specify a hateful anti-semitic, anti-Hispanic, anti-African-American message in icing on the cake advocating denial of citizenship, and worse for everyone not a white national. They wear swastikas, openly carry guns and try to leave printed propaganda in your shop and shout slogans outside.

You refuse to accept their order citing violation of your sense of ethics, civil behavior to say nothing of religious and non-religious beliefs of tolerance. You refuse to help them spread their vile message in the form of their cake and its decoration.

You defend yourself claiming that any decent person would do the same and that you cannot be forced to participate in activities that violate your morals.

They sue you citing violation of their civil rights of free speech. They claim you are attempting to deny them lawful activities.

Now what?

These are two opposite extremes, but it's the direction our increasingly polarized society is heading.

Rich
This example is bovine effluent. Being homosexual is not hateful to any other person.

Being a photographer is like being a mechanic, neither carries the implication of support to the personal POV of their clients.
 
As a society, we have decided that certain types of discrimination are bad, and should be avoided. This includes discrimination on the basis of race, creed, color, national origin, or sexual orientation.

For instance, If I have a business that rents tables and chairs, I can't refuse a customer because he belongs to the "wrong" branch of Christianity.

Similarly, you can't refuse to rent to a wedding because one (or both) of the participants belong to a race you consider "inferior."

While you may think a person should be allowed to refuse service on these grounds, as a society we have decided otherwise.
And for good reason. If one doesn't wnat other people's ways impressed upon them, they would not try to impress their own on others.
And yet, that's exactly what the Master's Cakeshop customers did. They went radically out of their way to make sure they confronted the one place that would refuse them. They were extremely specific about their choice. They wanted their way impressed upon him.
Weddings are an interesting situation as the skills required may actually vary based on one of these factors.

Different religions have different traditions. If you have only shot weddings from one particular religion, you may not be familiar with the traditions of another religion. This means you might miss shooting events that you didn't realize were critical.
We have this thing called language. One simply asks. The first time I shot a Jewish wedding, I asked what the ceremony entailed, what could or could not be photographed, what they felt was important to cover, etc. One can even ask to attend the rehearsal, if there is one.
Perfect. So someone who has never done something must simply ask, and suddenly he will perform perfectly. Cool!
If you only have shot brides with light skin color, you may have trouble with images that contain a bride's very dark skin, and her white dress in the same image.
It is not that difficult and in the age of the internet, not hard to figure out.
Riiiiiiiight.
If you have only shot heterosexual weddings, you may not know how to pose two brides or two grooms (perhaps all your best poses require one flowing dress and one tuxedo).
It is not different. Really not.
It really, really, is.
So the issue isn't whether or not we are feee to do whatever we want (we aren't), the issue is whether restricting such discrimination is overall a good thing for society.
Exactly. Freedom is not the ability for an individual to do whatever they choose because their choices would impinge on the freedom of others. A free society requires limits on individual freedoms.
You have no freedom, no right, to the services of another person. That's called slavery. Demanding someone serve me even when they don't want to is wrong.
 
Exactly. Freedom is not the ability for an individual to do whatever they choose because their choices would impinge on the freedom of others. A free society requires limits on individual freedoms.
You have no freedom, no right, to the services of another person. That's called slavery. Demanding someone serve me even when they don't want to is wrong.
It's not slavery. No one has to become a photographer, baker, etc. However, if you do make that choice, you must do so within society's rules. One of those rules is not discriminating on the basis of race, creed, color, sex, national original, or sexual orientation.
 
Exactly. Freedom is not the ability for an individual to do whatever they choose because their choices would impinge on the freedom of others. A free society requires limits on individual freedoms.
You have no freedom, no right, to the services of another person. That's called slavery. Demanding someone serve me even when they don't want to is wrong.
It's not slavery. No one has to become a photographer, baker, etc. However, if you do make that choice, you must do so within society's rules. One of those rules is not discriminating on the basis of race, creed, color, sex, national original, or sexual orientation.
Somehow folks need to cater to policy of the state, no ? The state who issues a byz license clearly states that no discrimination would be permitted. I get it, that peeps want to jump this thing and claim that "two goats get married". Either way, pics of the goats should be taken and great cake made for them too :>)

Forgive the ooozing sarcasm.
 
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Exactly. Freedom is not the ability for an individual to do whatever they choose because their choices would impinge on the freedom of others. A free society requires limits on individual freedoms.
You have no freedom, no right, to the services of another person. That's called slavery. Demanding someone serve me even when they don't want to is wrong.
It's not slavery. No one has to become a photographer, baker, etc. However, if you do make that choice, you must do so within society's rules. One of those rules is not discriminating on the basis of race, creed, color, sex, national original, or sexual orientation.
"No ones has to earn a living. But, if they want to, they have to do anything, no matter whether or not it goes against their beliefs."
 
"No ones has to earn a living. But, if they want to, they have to do anything, no matter whether or not it goes against their beliefs."
Not necessarily. B&H closes on Saturdays and Jewish religious holidays. They still earn a living.

One just has to recognizes where the lifestyle compromises will have to be made and how to make them. In this kind of situation, it might mean being a different kind of photographer.
 
They sue you citing violation of their civil rights of free speech. They claim you are attempting to deny them lawful activities.
You don't appear to understand the law at all.

The case under discussion relates to discrimination based on being a member of a protected class (EG religion, gender, race, sexual orientation etc). Your example has nothing to do with discrimination and is also nonsense.

1. White supremacists aren't a protected class so can't sue for discrimination.

2. More importantly free speech is a public right, not a private one. The government can not stop someone spouting racist nonsense on their own blog but if that person walks into my bar (or cake shop) and says it, I can toss them out the door. There is no legal requirement for anyone to publish their racist screed on a cake or on a website - no law has been broken and they would lose any case their brought.

Businesses are free to refuse customers provided the reason given is not that they are members of a protected group.

"You don't have enough social media followers - I only sell to people with 50,000+ followers"

"Your fashion sense is awful - I don't want my cake in photographs next you your purple corduroy wedding dress"

"I don't trust you".

All the above are legally valid reasons (though probably a stupid way to run a business).

"I don't serve Pakis" - isn't.
 
There isn't a good way out of this kind of thing. Who's rights prevail?

I personally think it is reprehensible that people get denied services because the business owner is allowed to claim that the request by the LGBT individual(s) would violate religious beliefs. I think it's a poorly-concealed act of hate masquerading as a religious issue.

HOWEVER . . .

Turn the situation around . . .

A couple who openly professes white nationalism comes into your cake shop and wants to order a cake for their wedding. They specify a hateful anti-semitic, anti-Hispanic, anti-African-American message in icing on the cake advocating denial of citizenship, and worse for everyone not a white national. They wear swastikas, openly carry guns and try to leave printed propaganda in your shop and shout slogans outside.

You refuse to accept their order citing violation of your sense of ethics, civil behavior to say nothing of religious and non-religious beliefs of tolerance. You refuse to help them spread their vile message in the form of their cake and its decoration.

You defend yourself claiming that any decent person would do the same and that you cannot be forced to participate in activities that violate your morals.

They sue you citing violation of their civil rights of free speech. They claim you are attempting to deny them lawful activities.

Now what?

These are two opposite extremes, but it's the direction our increasingly polarized society is heading.

Rich
Courts have already ruled hate speech is not protected by law.
 
There isn't a good way out of this kind of thing. Who's rights prevail?

I personally think it is reprehensible that people get denied services because the business owner is allowed to claim that the request by the LGBT individual(s) would violate religious beliefs. I think it's a poorly-concealed act of hate masquerading as a religious issue.

HOWEVER . . .

Turn the situation around . . .

A couple who openly professes white nationalism comes into your cake shop and wants to order a cake for their wedding. They specify a hateful anti-semitic, anti-Hispanic, anti-African-American message in icing on the cake advocating denial of citizenship, and worse for everyone not a white national. They wear swastikas, openly carry guns and try to leave printed propaganda in your shop and shout slogans outside.

You refuse to accept their order citing violation of your sense of ethics, civil behavior to say nothing of religious and non-religious beliefs of tolerance. You refuse to help them spread their vile message in the form of their cake and its decoration.

You defend yourself claiming that any decent person would do the same and that you cannot be forced to participate in activities that violate your morals.

They sue you citing violation of their civil rights of free speech. They claim you are attempting to deny them lawful activities.

Now what?

These are two opposite extremes, but it's the direction our increasingly polarized society is heading.

Rich
Courts have already ruled hate speech is not protected by law.
Umm. Quite the opposite. I'd recommend starting with Matal v. Tam.
 
There isn't a good way out of this kind of thing. Who's rights prevail?

I personally think it is reprehensible that people get denied services because the business owner is allowed to claim that the request by the LGBT individual(s) would violate religious beliefs. I think it's a poorly-concealed act of hate masquerading as a religious issue.

HOWEVER . . .

Turn the situation around . . .

A couple who openly professes white nationalism comes into your cake shop and wants to order a cake for their wedding. They specify a hateful anti-semitic, anti-Hispanic, anti-African-American message in icing on the cake advocating denial of citizenship, and worse for everyone not a white national. They wear swastikas, openly carry guns and try to leave printed propaganda in your shop and shout slogans outside.

You refuse to accept their order citing violation of your sense of ethics, civil behavior to say nothing of religious and non-religious beliefs of tolerance. You refuse to help them spread their vile message in the form of their cake and its decoration.

You defend yourself claiming that any decent person would do the same and that you cannot be forced to participate in activities that violate your morals.

They sue you citing violation of their civil rights of free speech. They claim you are attempting to deny them lawful activities.

Now what?

These are two opposite extremes, but it's the direction our increasingly polarized society is heading.

Rich
Courts have already ruled hate speech is not protected by law.
Umm. Quite the opposite. I'd recommend starting with Matal v. Tam.
I posted only part of my intended comment by accident and was not able to go back and edit. What I intended to say was that in such situations as refusing to provide a service that promulgates hate speech, the laws don't easily provide a basis for a lawsuit. This is especially the case if the speech is intended to incite violence.

 
Courts have already ruled hate speech is not protected by law.
Umm. Quite the opposite. I'd recommend starting with Matal v. Tam.
Matal v Tam might allow a baker to bake a cake presenting his own hate speech, but it comes nowhere near requiring a baker to bake a cake presenting someone else's hate speech.
 
There isn't a good way out of this kind of thing. Who's rights prevail?

I personally think it is reprehensible that people get denied services because the business owner is allowed to claim that the request by the LGBT individual(s) would violate religious beliefs. I think it's a poorly-concealed act of hate masquerading as a religious issue.

HOWEVER . . .

Turn the situation around . . .

A couple who openly professes white nationalism comes into your cake shop and wants to order a cake for their wedding. They specify a hateful anti-semitic, anti-Hispanic, anti-African-American message in icing on the cake advocating denial of citizenship, and worse for everyone not a white national. They wear swastikas, openly carry guns and try to leave printed propaganda in your shop and shout slogans outside.

You refuse to accept their order citing violation of your sense of ethics, civil behavior to say nothing of religious and non-religious beliefs of tolerance. You refuse to help them spread their vile message in the form of their cake and its decoration.

You defend yourself claiming that any decent person would do the same and that you cannot be forced to participate in activities that violate your morals.

They sue you citing violation of their civil rights of free speech. They claim you are attempting to deny them lawful activities.

Now what?

These are two opposite extremes, but it's the direction our increasingly polarized society is heading.

Rich
Courts have already ruled hate speech is not protected by law.
Umm. Quite the opposite. I'd recommend starting with Matal v. Tam.
I posted only part of my intended comment by accident and was not able to go back and edit. What I intended to say was that in such situations as refusing to provide a service that promulgates hate speech, the laws don't easily provide a basis for a lawsuit. This is especially the case if the speech is intended to incite violence.
Saying that you disagree with something is not hate speech, nor does it incite violence.
 
Saying that you disagree with something is not hate speech, nor does it incite violence.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence. It mightn't be fair, but it is how human behaviour works.
 
Saying that you disagree with something is not hate speech, nor does it incite violence.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence. It mightn't be fair, but it is how human behaviour works.
Couldn't possibly disagree more strongly.

This conversation, like nearly all political conversations, comes down to one thing: individualism vs collectivism. I'm a staunch individualist. You are not.

What else is there left to say?
 
Saying that you disagree with something is not hate speech, nor does it incite violence.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence. It mightn't be fair, but it is how human behaviour works.
Couldn't possibly disagree more strongly.

This conversation, like nearly all political conversations, comes down to one thing: individualism vs collectivism. I'm a staunch individualist. You are not.
Actually, not true. What I am is someone who understands what it takes to run a society.
 
Saying that you disagree with something is not hate speech, nor does it incite violence.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence. It mightn't be fair, but it is how human behaviour works.
Couldn't possibly disagree more strongly.

This conversation, like nearly all political conversations, comes down to one thing: individualism vs collectivism. I'm a staunch individualist. You are not.
Actually, not true. What I am is someone who understands what it takes to run a society.
A society the way YOU want it. I want society to look differently. I want maximum individual liberty and minimum government instrusion. Simple as that. You want the government to be bigger so that it can enforce your rules.
 
Saying that you disagree with something is not hate speech, nor does it incite violence.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence. It mightn't be fair, but it is how human behaviour works.
Couldn't possibly disagree more strongly.

This conversation, like nearly all political conversations, comes down to one thing: individualism vs collectivism. I'm a staunch individualist. You are not.
Actually, not true. What I am is someone who understands what it takes to run a society.
A society the way YOU want it. I want society to look differently. I want maximum individual liberty and minimum government instrusion. Simple as that. You want the government to be bigger so that it can enforce your rules.
No. You would like to think so because it removes actually dealing with the practical issues.

Full freedom to do whatever one wants is impossible for more than one person. Individual freedom, in a more realistic sense, is protected by government. It also must balance with the desired freedoms of others in a society.

If you want to be a "true" individual; go find an unoccupied plot of land, clear it, fell your own trees to build your cabin, raise/hunt your own food, etc. You really should also build your own tools, because buying them means having submitted to the system you so dislike. Better hope you never get neighbours, because dealing with them is inevitably either a compromise or capitulation. Thus damaging your "individualism". If you think this sounds extreme, it is because you do not understand how things actually work.

Explaining in detail what you seem to be missing is far beyond the purview of this site.

Going back to the wedding photo issue. The freedom for one to discriminate impinges upon the freedom of another to exist equally. So, in reality, you are advocating for the freedom of people like you, not the freedom of everyone.
 
Saying that you disagree with something is not hate speech, nor does it incite violence.
It is much less simple than this. Disapproval supports hate which supports violence. It mightn't be fair, but it is how human behaviour works.
Couldn't possibly disagree more strongly.

This conversation, like nearly all political conversations, comes down to one thing: individualism vs collectivism. I'm a staunch individualist. You are not.
Actually, not true. What I am is someone who understands what it takes to run a society.
A society the way YOU want it. I want society to look differently. I want maximum individual liberty and minimum government instrusion. Simple as that. You want the government to be bigger so that it can enforce your rules.
No. You would like to think so because it removes actually dealing with the practical issues.

Full freedom to do whatever one wants is impossible for more than one person. Individual freedom, in a more realistic sense, is protected by government. It also must balance with the desired freedoms of others in a society.
Addressed previously. Right to swing your fist ends where my face begins.
If you want to be a "true" individual; go find an unoccupied plot of land, clear it, fell your own trees to build your cabin, raise/hunt your own food, etc. You really should also build your own tools, because buying them means having submitted to the system you so dislike.
I love capitalism. A lot.
Better hope you never get neighbours, because dealing with them is inevitably either a compromise or capitulation. Thus damaging your "individualism". If you think this sounds extreme, it is because you do not understand how things actually work.
You clearly don't understand what I'm talking about.
Explaining in detail what you seem to be missing is far beyond the purview of this site.
Yeah, that's a nice Goebbels.
Going back to the wedding photo issue. The freedom for one to discriminate impinges upon the freedom of another to exist equally. So, in reality, you are advocating for the freedom of people like you, not the freedom of everyone.
Negative, because no one has an inherent right to my services.

If someone opens a business and discriminates against me, that's fine. I'll go elsewhere.
 
Yeah, that's a nice Goebbels.
Oh, you get away with this because you are a moderator? Nice. Insult rather than actually discuss, typical, but unfortunate.
Going back to the wedding photo issue. The freedom for one to discriminate impinges upon the freedom of another to exist equally. So, in reality, you are advocating for the freedom of people like you, not the freedom of everyone.
Negative, because no one has an inherent right to my services.

If someone opens a business and discriminates against me, that's fine. I'll go elsewhere.
Again, you fail to comprehend or choose not to because reality interferes with your fantasy.
 

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