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What's the problem?
They don't know how to shoot a wedding and want to be a second shooter. Not an assistant. A shooter. And they just decided to start a photography business. So I suppose they might expect to get paid. I think most second shooters do, even if minimally. But based on what body of work, particularly dealing with photographing people in a unique event and under a significant time constraint. And being a brand new business owner (maybe) are they going to be able to stick to the schedule the primary has to follow, or will they be faffing off to shoot their own gigs, or work whatever other job they may still hold. And of course, they apparently don't already know any wedding photographers that would work with them. And they don't know what info to offer up in such a request to make it seem feasible. Plus, what happens when it comes to owning, editing, and sharing the photos, do they know yet how to navigate that, since it directly impacts the other photographer.

The issue is the powerful indication that this person is asking to bite off too much, and at the potential detriment of the photographer who allows them to do it at one of their booked weddings. With everything else involved in shooting a wedding and delivering final images, will a photographer entertain a request presented in such a way.
Amazing what this forum can conclude from one out of context sentence/request.
 
I don't really see a problem with that. At least this person doesn't have a shingle out offering wedding photography not ever having been a second shooter first. Generally to do anything really well takes some amount of experience, but how do you get that experience? Seems like being a second shooter would be the obvious way for wedding photography. If the thing is structured so that the 2nd shooter is doing the less challenging shots, if that person is a pretty good photographer already and if they're a pretty quick learner, it could work out very well, right?
sorry dont agree, when i started out in the yachting world then to become a ships captain. i studied at nautical/aviation school for 6 years, at the same time i built a 35 foot yacht to commercial survey. then i approached a well known yacht to joining as crew as completed theory ocean masters course. so they excepted me as navigator. then when't on to solo sailing my first 10,000 miles on my own yacht (practical experience) to then holding a full qualification. then sat a few more courses and worked as a paid skipper of yachts up to 90 ft then applying for my commercial license . then i built a 47 foot ocean survey yacht and started my "own" business. as i said no pain no gain. just get off your behind is how you make it, not sucking up to someone else.

Don
Because a commercial captain is exactly the same as a second shooter at a wedding.
 
I don't really see a problem with that. At least this person doesn't have a shingle out offering wedding photography not ever having been a second shooter first. Generally to do anything really well takes some amount of experience, but how do you get that experience? Seems like being a second shooter would be the obvious way for wedding photography. If the thing is structured so that the 2nd shooter is doing the less challenging shots, if that person is a pretty good photographer already and if they're a pretty quick learner, it could work out very well, right?
sorry dont agree, when i started out in the yachting world then to become a ships captain. i studied at nautical/aviation school for 6 years, at the same time i built a 35 foot yacht to commercial survey. then i approached a well known yacht to joining as crew as completed theory ocean masters course. so they excepted me as navigator. then when't on to solo sailing my first 10,000 miles on my own yacht (practical experience) to then holding a full qualification. then sat a few more courses and worked as a paid skipper of yachts up to 90 ft then applying for my commercial license . then i built a 47 foot ocean survey yacht and started my "own" business. as i said no pain no gain. just get off your behind is how you make it, not sucking up to someone else.

Don
Oh dear, of course Don, but let's not forget that compared to to the average person waking on the streets, you are the exceptional genius and no one can simply come close to your level. Of course you are also very modest.

But all your blah blah is completely irrelevant to the subject because if you haven't understood yet, a yacht is not a camera and wedding photography is different from sailing and requires different skill, different approach and diffetent training.

Working as a second shooter for weddings is a very important part of this training and practicing and there are no shortcuts. only stupid photographers would skip that part. So actually, there was a very good treason or the photographer bin your OP to enquirer about that.

Moti
Any person with a passion will become anything they wont, my 16 yo daughter still has 2 years left at high school and is planning a double degree in Medicine and teaching and as i have told her if she want's to succeed in medicine she must have a passion for it not just study it. she did top biology last year and enjoys it so only time will tell. second shooter LOL learn by your self ,if your going to be good at photography go take photos and study the art. theirs no short cuts , build a portfolio of your own and make your own mistakes and be responsible for them. no ones life is at risk, mind you some photographers have a different opinion :-)

Don
You know she has to be a second shooter before she can practice medicine on her own, right?
 
I don't really see a problem with that. At least this person doesn't have a shingle out offering wedding photography not ever having been a second shooter first. Generally to do anything really well takes some amount of experience, but how do you get that experience? Seems like being a second shooter would be the obvious way for wedding photography. If the thing is structured so that the 2nd shooter is doing the less challenging shots, if that person is a pretty good photographer already and if they're a pretty quick learner, it could work out very well, right?
sorry dont agree, when i started out in the yachting world then to become a ships captain. i studied at nautical/aviation school for 6 years, at the same time i built a 35 foot yacht to commercial survey. then i approached a well known yacht to joining as crew as completed theory ocean masters course. so they excepted me as navigator. then when't on to solo sailing my first 10,000 miles on my own yacht (practical experience) to then holding a full qualification. then sat a few more courses and worked as a paid skipper of yachts up to 90 ft then applying for my commercial license . then i built a 47 foot ocean survey yacht and started my "own" business. as i said no pain no gain. just get off your behind is how you make it, not sucking up to someone else.

Don
Neat.

Not sure that applies to an artistic field, but your dad must have been proud.
My father didnt have any input into anything i achieved.

Don
I apologize for implying that I was interested in hearing more about your life.
Lol...
 
my 16 yo daughter still has 2 years left at high school and is planning a double degree in Medicine and teaching
...
second shooter LOL learn by your self
So...

Are you going tell your daughter "medical intern. LOL learn by yourself" ?

Or does your insecure arrogance not include ridiculing your supposed med student?
 
What's the problem?
They don't know how to shoot a wedding and want to be a second shooter. Not an assistant. A shooter. And they just decided to start a photography business. So I suppose they might expect to get paid. I think most second shooters do, even if minimally. But based on what body of work, particularly dealing with photographing people in a unique event and under a significant time constraint. And being a brand new business owner (maybe) are they going to be able to stick to the schedule the primary has to follow, or will they be faffing off to shoot their own gigs, or work whatever other job they may still hold. And of course, they apparently don't already know any wedding photographers that would work with them. And they don't know what info to offer up in such a request to make it seem feasible. Plus, what happens when it comes to owning, editing, and sharing the photos, do they know yet how to navigate that, since it directly impacts the other photographer.

The issue is the powerful indication that this person is asking to bite off too much, and at the potential detriment of the photographer who allows them to do it at one of their booked weddings. With everything else involved in shooting a wedding and delivering final images, will a photographer entertain a request presented in such a way.
Amazing what this forum can conclude from one out of context sentence/request.
I know right! I've just read through the whole thread - classic DPR, filled with judgements and whinges about younger generations and bickering about spelling.

The person in the ad quoted by Sailor Don says nothing about the type of business or their experience, but that is enough for some people to start running off with their dismissive judgements. Confused Circle has the person fully characterised as lazy, disorganised, irresponsible, incompetent and unrealistic to the point of being delusional. Brilliant stuff!

For all we know, the would-be wedding photographer may be a person of the calibre of Sailor Don and his daughter - that would surely make them a force to be reckoned with!
 
Talk about the cart before the horse.

He should start a Youtube channel first.
She :-) exactly.

Don
Do all photographers make fun of new photographers or is it just DPR posters?
I tend to agree with the tone of the thread. It's like saying, hey I just started a plumbing business but I'd like to find an experienced plumber to follow around so I can learn how to install a new faucet. Seems like photography is one of the only trades where one thinks buying a fancy camera will give them instant access to making big bucks.
I have a great nephew who is now a licensed electrician. Guess how he started.

Yup, following around a licensed electrician until he had the knowledge/met requirements in his state to get his license.
So did he establish a business first? I'm guessing not.
 
Talk about the cart before the horse.

He should start a Youtube channel first.
She :-) exactly.

Don
Do all photographers make fun of new photographers or is it just DPR posters?
It's common here. The old, insecure members tend to do this.

Thankfully, as they age, their arrogance will die off with them.
I'm not a pro photographer so I have nothing to be insecure about. Just seemed backwards to me to establish a business first before learning how it's done.
 
Talk about the cart before the horse.

He should start a Youtube channel first.
She :-) exactly.

Don
Do all photographers make fun of new photographers or is it just DPR posters?
It's common here. The old, insecure members tend to do this.

Thankfully, as they age, their arrogance will die off with them.
Exactly. You think this is bad - you should have seen the egomaniac sports photographers degrade people on Sportsshooter.com. I was a member there for several years when I was a sports photographer. They were an even bigger "get of my lawn" crowd than the wedding photogs here. Now, of course, that website is pretty insignificant and a whole slew of sports photographers are out of jobs.

How is this relevant? Because wedding photography is going the same route. A good friend in his 40s just got married - they had a lovely small wedding - phtographed by a friend with a smartphone. Are the photos high quality? No. Does the couple care? No. They chose to spend money on other things. Of the 4 or 5 weddings I've been to in the last 3 years or so - every photographer is the part time variety. I'm not saying there aren't people still willing to hire established, full time professional wedding photographers. There are. But, there's a significant amount of people that just don't value the product/service at the price those full time professionals have to charge. So, the $500 part-timer is good enough.

So, yes, the person who started their business will probably not be in business in 5 years (realizing it's too much work for too little money) - but if they're good enough, people will hire them and be happy. And there will be another 3 people to take their place. It's just the way of things now - there's a much bigger supply of people that can take "good enough" photos. Just like sports photojournalism.
 
Talk about the cart before the horse.

He should start a Youtube channel first.
She :-) exactly.

Don
Do all photographers make fun of new photographers or is it just DPR posters?
I tend to agree with the tone of the thread. It's like saying, hey I just started a plumbing business but I'd like to find an experienced plumber to follow around so I can learn how to install a new faucet. Seems like photography is one of the only trades where one thinks buying a fancy camera will give them instant access to making big bucks.
I have a great nephew who is now a licensed electrician. Guess how he started.

Yup, following around a licensed electrician until he had the knowledge/met requirements in his state to get his license.
So did he establish a business first? I'm guessing not.
The OP stated the person started a business and wants to learn weddings. That's all we know. They might just want to expand their business to include photography.

I started a service business (not photography related) 29 years ago.

About 20 years ago a customer knew I was a computer geek and asked if I knew anything about websites as they wanted to set up a website.

Nope, I didn't know a thing about websites but give me a week to set something up. I learned everything I could in that week and had a website up and running at the end of the week. They were happy and paid me, still pay me about 3,500 bucks a year for that site.

Same thing with event photography, had a customer who knew I enjoyed taking photos and asked me if I'd shoot their big company 2 day event. Sure, 20 years later I'm still doing it along with events for other people and various other types of photography for customers of my main business. Didn't have a clue how to shoot an event that big.

In my main business I get all kinds of requests for jobs I have no idea how to do. When times were tough I said yes to every one of them and figured it out. I have never failed. Many times I would tell my wife I took on a new job and she would ask do I know how to do it? Nope, but we're going to learn and make some money.

Point is, everyone starts somewhere and I don't get all the hate for the simple request in the OP.
 
Talk about the cart before the horse.

He should start a Youtube channel first.
She :-) exactly.

Don
Do all photographers make fun of new photographers or is it just DPR posters?
It's common here. The old, insecure members tend to do this.

Thankfully, as they age, their arrogance will die off with them.
I'm not a pro photographer so I have nothing to be insecure about. Just seemed backwards to me to establish a business first before learning how it's done.
I'd say it's also backwards to assume you know anything about the person then criticize them for things you made up.

What kind of business did he start?

Nowhere did he say he started a wedding photography business.

I and others have already pointed this out. In fact I think it was your silly plumbing analogy that I corrected

Of course, you can choose to ignore that and pretend to know this person instead.
 
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The American economy encourages (forces?) workers to be mobile, flexible, and versatile. Pouring beers one week, plowing a field the next, highway construction the next... geologist, archaeologist, photographer, driving railroad spikes, or loading a coal train... I've just about done it all.

Where I live, you do whatever work is needed or you starve.

So far though I've turned down every offer to be a wedding or event photographer. Ugh, I can't imagine.
Plowing a field ?!?!

Cant you spell plough ? Ploughing a field .
Do you have an English language use youtube channel? You should.
 
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Talk about the cart before the horse.

He should start a Youtube channel first.
She :-) exactly.

Don
Do all photographers make fun of new photographers or is it just DPR posters?
Nothing wrong with being a new photographer.

Everything wrong with starting a business selling services you have no experience providing.

She should learn to shoot and then start the business later. What she's doing now is damn near fraud. Would you pay someone who's never used a camera to be the lead shooter at your wedding?
 
Talk about the cart before the horse.

He should start a Youtube channel first.
She :-) exactly.

Don
Do all photographers make fun of new photographers or is it just DPR posters?
Nothing wrong with being a new photographer.

Everything wrong with starting a business selling services you have no experience providing.

She should learn to shoot and then start the business later. What she's doing now is damn near fraud. Would you pay someone who's never used a camera to be the lead shooter at your wedding?
Do you have a source for that statement?

Where did you get the information that the person was selling services they have experience with?

Does the person have a website or something advertising wedding photography?

How do you know the person in question is advertising being lead shooter at weddings and how do you know they never used a camera?
 
Talk about the cart before the horse.

He should start a Youtube channel first.
She :-) exactly.

Don
Do all photographers make fun of new photographers or is it just DPR posters?
Nothing wrong with being a new photographer.

Everything wrong with starting a business selling services you have no experience providing.
What kind of photography business did she start?

Any clue?
She should learn to shoot and then start the business later.
So if she has a portrait business, she should close down until she is a wedding pro?
What she's doing now is damn near fraud.
Would you pay someone who's never used a camera to be the lead shooter at your wedding?
You're assuming you know what business she started then accusing her of fraud. Lol...
Why do people make things up then insult others based on those things? It's crazy.
 
Talk about the cart before the horse.

He should start a Youtube channel first.
She :-) exactly.

Don
Do all photographers make fun of new photographers or is it just DPR posters?
Nothing wrong with being a new photographer.

Everything wrong with starting a business selling services you have no experience providing.

She should learn to shoot and then start the business later. What she's doing now is damn near fraud. Would you pay someone who's never used a camera to be the lead shooter at your wedding?
Do you have a source for that statement?

Where did you get the information that the person was selling services they have experience with?

Does the person have a website or something advertising wedding photography?

How do you know the person in question is advertising being lead shooter at weddings and how do you know they never used a camera?
Exactly.

Seems this rampant insecurity causes these people to completely make up "facts" then get angry over them.

Must make them better photographers.
 
Read this on social media and had a laugh.

"Anyone know or is anyone a wedding photographer and needing a 2nd photographer.

I have recently started a business (photography) but want to get practice in seeing how weddings are done."

Don
Haha Don, you're a fun guy and it's been fun to read the responses of the touchy. You do have a way of getting them out of the woodwork. How obtuse must people be not to spot someone is calling themselves a professional without such basic experience in the profession? Maybe you have disturbed a nest of wannabees ;)
 
Read this on social media and had a laugh.

"Anyone know or is anyone a wedding photographer and needing a 2nd photographer.

I have recently started a business (photography) but want to get practice in seeing how weddings are done."

Don
Haha Don, you're a fun guy and it's been fun to read the responses of the touchy. You do have a way of getting them out of the woodwork. How obtuse must people be not to spot someone is calling themselves a professional without such basic experience in the profession? Maybe you have disturbed a nest of wannabees ;)
Who's touchy?

Do you have a source showing where the person in question represented themselves as a professional? Do you have a source showing they have no experience in the profession?

I am not a wannabe, I'm just curious how you gathered all that information from a single sentence.
 
Read this on social media and had a laugh.

"Anyone know or is anyone a wedding photographer and needing a 2nd photographer.

I have recently started a business (photography) but want to get practice in seeing how weddings are done."

Don
I do not see the humor.
 

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