[snip] the problem is, that some answers are neither helpful nore constructive, simply because the reader didn't bother to read the entire post. Some just watch at the posted picture and start to spread their wisdom.
I assume you are especially referring to my answer to Bill Ferris. His answer is not just an example of not having read the entre post, it's also factually wrong (10 ft distance? Corner softness!?) and hysterically weird (unsteady air!). And he tries to teach DOF, while even the thread header suggests that missing DOF isn't the issue. You are right, there might be people being more patient than me, but I'm doing hard keep being respectful in such cases. Guilty.
The comments in my original response are based on viewing and analysing the one sample photo provided. As that is the only direct evidence offered in support of your claim that some combination of the camera, lens or image processing software is producing flawed images, it just made sense to me to go back to the original image and see for myself if any of those problems are indicated. You know where I stand on that question.
I've been shooting with an X-T20 and 18-55mm f/2.8-4 OIS since April 2017. Here, are a few samples:
Establishing DOF of test images is, of course, essential to evaluating the sharpness of a lens. If an element in a composition lies outside the range within which objects should appear to be in focus, that element cannot be used as a measure of critical sharpness or resolution of the lens.
My guesstimate on your distance from the flower where focus was set was an educated guess based on the angle of view at 55mm, the subject and the location of the focal plane in the photograph. If you were substantially farther than 10-feet from the flower that served as the focal point, what was the distance? With that, the focal length, f-stop and sensor format, it's easy to use an online DOF calculator to determine the actual depth of field.
With respect to the 18-55mm, it's a fine lens. It's also far from the best lens Fuji makes. My copy shows fairly obvious (viewed at 100%) softness at the sides and corners. The crop you made and attached with your first post was taken from the far left side of the image. It shows the kind and degree of softness I'm used to seeing. I called afternoon to that in my initial response.
As for the bokeh (the quality of defocused blur) in the one sample image provided, it's not at all unlike what I've seen in images made with my copy of the 18-55 and in other lenses I own. Whether or not you agree with my interpretation of what factors are the cause of that bokeh, the bottom line point I would make is that under more favorable conditions and in a composition that maximizes a lens' ability to create separation, the resulting bokeh can be much more pleasing.
I (and others) have suggested simple setups you could photograph to better understand the optical characteristics of your new camera and lens. I suggested a setup I have use with just about every lens or digital camera I've owned. It's an excuse to make some photos with new kit and the resulting images are actually informative.
The one observation I'll make about your response, is that I'm surprised by it. Personally, I'd be relieved to hear even one experienced photographer say a camera or lens I had concerns about was actually performing to spec. I'd be all over doing some simple followup testing to confirm (or refute) that. You seem seem deeply invested in wanting your new gear to be flawed. That I don't get.