I already highlighted the tradeoff between DOF and greater light gathered.
And my contention is that this tradeoff only exists some of the time. You allude to that as well, but I think the tradeoff exists less often.
I "allude" to that? Huh?? I clearly stated in my first post in this thread that IF you need more DOF then you need to stop down anyway.
It depends on your use case.
What about landscape ? Or street photography or architecture or any outdoor scenarios where base ISO is used because of a tripod or just because there's enough light.
Yes, there is debate about that in this thread including my response to you that at ISO 100 vs ISO 100 pitting the best APS-C vs best FF sensors, there isn't much advantage. You get maybe a little better DR or color depending on the exact sensor/camera model. I already discussed this and others have chimed in... basically today's best APS-C is so good that at ISO 100 it's really close to FF. That's not a knock on FF, it's a testament to how much sensors have improved over the years.
A flash, strobe, etc. can get you much more than just a stop or two and also allow you to do more interesting effects with lighting than simply capturing available-light photos.
Sure, I agree with that. I was just addressing that tradeoff between DOF and light-gathering ... you said that people looking to go FF don't understand it. I guess maybe you're just more focused on low light photography here than I gathered, because I see plenty of cases where FF would be beneficial outside of astrophotography or shallow DOF.
Actually, I said that some people might hear that FF is better in low light and get a FF camera without understanding the nuances. I talked about shallow DOF, astro, and long-telephoto-with-high-shutter-speed situations (which I think I abbreviated as sports/action photography). You added another case which is casual flashless shots posted at low resolution to social media sites, which is true, but as I stated earlier, those kinds of shots aren't often that important in the first place.
I would add one more scenario though: for emergencies, like if you would normally take a photo with flash but your flash breaks or something, then you may be forced to max aperture and crank up ISO, and FF is good for that.
Similarly, for long exposures the answer is a tripod, not hand-holding a full frame camera and boosting ISO to try to compensate for handshake.
Right - and that's how you can keep your DOF without giving up the light gathering benefit of the larger sensor.
See above comment about APS-C vs FF at ISO 100.
At this point, it sounds like we don't really even have anything to disagree on; just irrelevant questions over what each of us is trying to say
Yeah I am not even really arguing for or against FF, just pointing out that not all photos benefit from FF, and that in some cases you could do better with APS-C + flash and/or tripod instead of barehanded FF.
I'm definitely not arguing that FF doesn't have advantages in some instances, and I gave examples.
And I would say that if you ignore size/weight/cost, then FF is more flexible overall because it gives you more options to stop down or not, and you can use flash and tripod with FF as well. But size/weight/cost are big factors to many people.