I generally agree with the OP's findings.
The skin tone and color in general is a tad behind other bodies, both FX and DX
The AF has problems with smaller subjects.
The metering is ok, but different than expected. This may be tied to AFS AF mode where the metering is biased more heavily by whatever is under the active sensor. I use AF-C for most of my shooting so I did not see it as much as others.
The white balance is mostly better than some previous DX cameras, but far below D300s and D700 bodies.
In the end, I sold the camera. In hindsight, I should have either kept my D90 or upgraded to the D300s.