These conversations always descend into a bun fight. I'm pretty sure it's because of one very important assumption about what "use crop mode" means (or "super-35 mode" to use the OP's phrasing) .
For those, like me, who say it makes no difference to DR, we stand in the same place when we take the crop shot as we did when we took the FF shot. Our image is literally a crop from the middle of the original full frame. DR is the same.
For others, who say DR is reduced, I think they assume we back off some distance to include the exact same FoV in the crop view as we had for the FF shot. In that case, there are fewer pixels covering the same scene, so overall DR does drop in that definition.
In summary.
Stand still - crop shot has same DR as the same area cropped from the FF shot
Move back and reframe the same - crop shot has lower overall DR than the FF shot
Is it that? (He asks, expecting a ton of incoming opprobrium for trying to be helpful

).