As someone else mentioned, I would rent first. There are many users in this forum who show over and over how successful they are with Fuji and autofocus (Morris, Alan Hewitt come to mind with wildlife right away).
Is it the best? Probably not, because there wouldn't be the hype over it if there weren't some kind of issue (regardless of use case/frequency). Overcoming the perception and reputation is going to be a challenge. Even the menu settings/implementation of auto focus unfortunately needs too much tweaking to get the best out of it (from a consumer wanting to set it and forget it perspective). The issue is finding the middle ground between hype (YT, etc.), real world use, and your specific use cases. I like Pal2Tech and have not yet watched a video of his that reports the autofocus is that bad (maybe I've just missed it). Was it being reported as universally bad across the board (genuinely curious)?
I tend to think lately that if auto focus were so universally bad, then why is it so hard to so consistently find Fuji equipment in stock over such a long period? Why don't sales suffer and the company contract over the long run- given how long the reputation for inability to focus has been around? A lot of people think Fuji is suffering the opposite, and not able to grow to meet the demand with the depth and breadth of the interest in the products they offer.
I don't type this to sound like a Fuji spokesperson either. Not even close- they have lots they need to work on in my opinion. However, the autofocus thing should be more carefully considered (and hence why I would suggest renting- especially if you have Fuji glass).
Just shot a wedding with two X-T5 bodies and maybe a dozen out of about 1200 images were out of focus (including the 'bad' 56mm mkii and 18mm).
I also leave this article from fujixweekly recently that touches on the issue and I thought offered an interesting perspective-
https://fujixweekly.com/2024/09/25/fujifilm-autofocus-an-uncomfortable-conversation-we-need-to-have/
Hopefully the next firmware addresses some of the issue, because I remember what a revelation the X-T5 was when I first got it compared to all the other X-T's (have had each model since X-T1).
Anyway, some food for thought. Whatever you choose, best of luck.