I don't have the DFA100/2.8 but the Sigma 105/2.8 macro, which is near enough. I also have both the DA35/2.8 ltd and the DA70/2.4 ltd. They are all pretty different: in particular, the difference between 35 and 100-ish is huge.
FOV first - the linear ratio is almost 3 so the area covered differs by a factor of about 8. This is a shot with the DA35 (the only lens I had with me)
and this is a crop more or less equivalent of 100mm
Handling as macro - for true 1:1 macro the 35 takes you so close the subject is inside the hood unless you retract it. 100mm gives you a lot more working distance for really close work. Pull back a bit and the difference is in the background: 35mm can show context while 100 concentrates on the subject; which is preferable varies from shot to shot.
DOF - for a given subject from a given distance DOF is the same for any lens, of course. But go closer with a 35mm to get the subject the same size and you get deeper DOF. This applies to both general shooting and macro.
Even if I'd had the FOV at 100mm this shot would have been cramped for DOF.
Portraits - all three lenses are good for portraits: it just depends how close or far back you want to, or can, work.
DA35/2.8
DA70/2.4
Sigma 105/2.8
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Gerry
First camera 1953, first Pentax 1983, first DSLR 2006
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