Thanks all. I appreciate all the comments. In my mind on the way to Bristl (1.5 hours away) I was prepared to be persuaded to go for the 750. I spoke at length also to another pro who loved it.
When I got to LCE I tried both and within minutes found I couldn't hold the 750 effectively with a pro lens and without the grip, whereas I could with the 810. It seemed much more to be in line with what I'm used to as well.
I am sure the 750 is a great camera for results, but for me the feel is extremely important. Having primarily used pro bodies or the 700 I couldn't make that leap.
My first test results have proved that the camera is fine in daylight. Quite brilliant actually. I am unsure about the high iso performance yet or the low light focussing. But I am pleased with my choice.
John
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