You are right, it's not a matter of "better" or "worse", film and digital are two very different experiences and looks. When I say looks I mean the entire film production chain that includes traditional darkroom hand printing from film, which I still do alongside my pro digital work. I've been shooting film and doing my own development and traditional silver gelatin and color printing since I started at age 12 over 50 years ago. Yes, the look IS different based on combinations of film and paper stocks that is all but impossible to fake with software when one includes traditional darkroom printing. There's a look, tonality range, and depth with fiber-based silver gelatin B&W prints that the digital printing process cannot duplicate or beat, regardless of how much post-processing skills and software one has - the difference is in the physical materials. I can tell a darkroom Type C print any day apart from a digital print. Both B&W and color darkroom prints have a continuous tonality and structure that is unique to the analog process. I was in San Francisco one day and approached a kiosk of a guy selling his prints. I said, "I love your RA-4 prints" and he was floored I could tell instantly that they were hand-printed darkroom prints from film.
I still do the full film-to-print (6x7 and 4x5) production chain because I enjoy the experience and the craft of the full end-to-end process. To me, shooting film and scanning it is a waste of time (other than for proofing); doing so sacrifices the end product and one might just as well go all digital.
I was an early adopter of 35mm format digital in the late 90's - it was a godsend then and a quantum leap in speed, cost, flexibility, ease, and quality then and more so now, which is why I shoot only digital for paid/production work.
I understand those that "would never go back" - it was costly, time-consuming, demands far more patience, and is far more difficult to master than digital, and still is other than the cost at low volume. Film and darkroom gear and materials are still relatively cheap compared to modern multi-thousand-dollar bodies and lenses that quickly become obsolete. I've spent exponentially more on digital where my entire darkroom cost me less than one high-end DSLR body and doesn't get obsolete.
Nevertheless, some of us enjoy the experience and the end product. Who says you can't enjoy both if one has the patience and desire?
Mike