Thank you Ian- your photos look great! some other folk have posted some great photos too, all taken with different cameras and lenses which obviously proves the point that the equipment isn't everything and yes I know I should learn and be patient etc.
I'm not very attached to the camera I have, it wasn't very expensive and I could get some money back by selling it on. The last thing I want to do is to invest more (lenses etc) in technology that is either going to be obsolete or have limits (I know, my ability currently is the biggest limit...) but I wouldn't want to be spending hundreds or thousands of pounds on lenses for this particular camera and then find that I want something different/better and can't re-use them....may as well invest some money upfront knowing that it was a wise investment and hopefully be a bit happier with the hobby in the meantime.
A couple of you guys made a very convincing argument about bridge cameras and maybe that's the way forward for me.