Technically anything that 'changes' the RAW file would be post processing. Yes no?
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Raw to full-colour bitmap is conversion, anything else is just normal image editing. Image post-processing is image adjustments that enhances quality of specific output. For example, this is often done at prepress.
This may be subjective, but the terms "editing" and "conversion" and "processing" and "retouching" have fairly distinct meanings to me. Editing is the evaluation, selection, and organization of images. Raw conversion is somewhat limited to the interpretation of available data from the camera mapped to a color gamut, preferably without losing image detail or causing excessive noise. Post Processing is the manipulation of the available image information as an expressive interpretation of what was captured. Retouching is the repair of perceived defects in the subject or the capture system. Profile conversion is the remapping for a different output. Of course there will be overlaps, and software programs typically incorporate a range of these functions.
It would be nice if all my favorite implementations of the functions were available in one Raw Processing Application, but that hasn't happened yet AFAIK. Certain applications are superlative in a specific area, such as PTLens for distortion correction of non-native lenses (several of which are important to me). RawDigger is indispensible for evaluating exposure and learning the limitations of my digital capture system. Lightroom does CA correction best. Photoshop is unbeatable for all-around processing. DxO Photolab has superb noise reduction and perspective correction. Topaz Detail gives me the sharpening control I like.
Experimentation is the best way to find the best sequence of steps for a particular job, but now I'm confident that once I have done a proper Raw conversion to a 16-bit image, I probably won't be degrading it noticeably by doing the other steps in other software -- it will just take longer. The two exceptions to this are CA correction and NR, which (as I thought you acknowledged) should at least partially be done during Raw conversion. If I add more contrast/saturation in Post and then artifacts like banding in the sky show up, maybe I'll start over with a more extensive (and potentially destructive) Raw processing to get closer to the desired result.