Yes I agree, it sure does for the talking head videos. A lot of them use AFC or face tracking or eye tracking when there is no need for it. For talking head shots, the head is not gong to be moving all over the frame. Thus, with any camera regardless of AF system, the background will pulse when AFC is locked on to a eye of a talking head. Any small move that head makes causes the pulse in the background. Thus, the solution is f/5.6 with a depth of field for 12 inches at 35mm will work with manual focus and no pulsing. IF they want more background blur, just move the head farther from the background.
Almost 80% of what people shoot can be done with manual+AF one area. But some how, AFC seems to be the only mode a lot of people use.
I think that oversimplifies things and overlooks some issues, but I get your point. Your solutions come from a film-maker's perspective, similar to how an experienced photographer would tell the amateur to stop using the cheap auto-do-everything features and properly learn their craft.
But playing devil's advocate, I guess depending on each individual, as well as their style, certain things may or may not apply so easily.
For example the solution of fixed focus: I suspect for a lot of YouTubers that's not going to work because they just can't reach out to their camera to pre-focus before starting the video (either they can't reach period, or pre-focusing this way will just end up with a front-focused video), such as a typical scenario of using a 12mm or 15mm propped up on a tripod in front of them.
I know Kasey of Camera Conspiracies currently uses a wired remote on his GH5s to do it for him, so that's actually a real possible solution given his filming conditions -- though he jokes of accidentally stopping the video when he just wanted to half-press to refocus). For someone filming themselves out on the streets would probably not work as you don't want a random passer-by to bring your whole rig down. I'm not sure if the Panasonic app works for refocusing in the middle of the video, but I understand why a YouTuber wouldn't want to use it (you'd have to look down at the phone to tap to focus).
Fixed focus also has other issues depending on filming style. If sitting at a table, one may want to lean forward when talking on a serious subject and then lean backwards for lighter banter. For gadget reviewers they may want to hold up an item to show to the viewers (and yes, I know you can just cut to B-roll for that, but this is YouTube, after all).
And then for live streamers, they don't really have much options open to them if they want to have a dynamic style where they may move or change position a lot (even if it's just leaning forward or back), show off products without cutting to B-roll, and not look like they keep fiddling with a phone/device to refocus.
And finally, I'd like to address this one thing specifically:
Any small move that head makes causes the pulse in the background.
This isn't the issue. The issue is that when the talking head isn't moving much, the pulsing is still going on -- something which the other manufacturers (Canon and Sony in particular) have no problems with, which is why people are panning Panasonic's DFD for it. Your occasional head movements do trigger the continuous autofocus to follow, but not in a way that produces the kind of pulsing that people are panning DFD for.
DPReview TV's first impressions of the G95/G90 at 9:42 onwards is a particularly bad case of pulsing which I highly doubt a Canon with DPAF or modern Sony would struggle with:
https://www.dpreview.com/videos/dpreview-tv?play=13291