DOF is effected by...
Aperture
Focal Length
Camera to Subject distance
It's important to note that focal length is a squared term, and so
is subject distance.... so they cancel. So, you can actually
reduce your list to two things..
1) aperture
2) subject magnification
Subject magnification is how big the subject is in the frame. The
key to short DOF is to eliminate as much of the border around the
subject as you can, which is done by increasing subject
magnification. To increase subject magnification, you can either
zoom in, or get closer... which is important to realize in low
light situations, so you don't create extra camera shake when you
could have had the same effect by getting closer.
jason