it gives me focus confirmation . I made sure I was a foot away. I am going to try right now 2 feet. Mac
Do you mean using Direct Manual Focus?
manual focus wouldn't have any focus points. Where as Direct Manual Focus lets you try to focus and then change the focus.. but not changes to the focus spot should occur.
In this case you are trying to focus on a point with a strong shadow with a heavy back light. The likely reason you are having an issue is the PDAF is able to focus in EV-2 heavy back light can confuse that though in many cameras particularly if you are using Multi metering. The Contrast Focus can focus in EV -3 or -4 (I believe it is -4) but this requires there to be contrasting elements. And the head is small and may not have enough contrasting elements for it to easily lock on to.
You may want to try to use Spot metering in this case and see if that helps any. Though honestly I really think that it is a combination of the head being at greater than EV -2 and not having enough contrast for the Contrast Focus to lock on to.