It really blows out of the water this idea you should buy more expensive lenses rather than the camera first. It also reinforces my point that quality fx lenses are cheap. I only paid £170 for my 1.8d. and £45 for my 1.8d 50mm.
What it really blows out of the water is the simplistic concept that all things are equal except for one specific parameter such as maximum aperture. Or stated otherwise, "What were you thinking?"
Good fixed focal length lenses are "specialty" items. They each have "character", and you choose them for that character.
If you've purchased an 85mm f/1.4D thinking the character it would have is that of a tack sharp from edge to edge low light lens... you failed to do any research at all and have misled yourself. That lens is a fabulous portrait lens, and if you shoot people shots with it at any aperture you'll discover why it is ranked (with about 3 other lenses) as good as it gets.
The more common mistake is in the opposite direction where people buy the 85mm f/1.8 and expect to get the portrait character of the f/1.4. Instead they have a decent lens that is mediocre except when shot wide open at f/1.8. For portraits, it really doesn't compare to the f/1.4 version.
So basically you've bought a really great screwdriver and are annoyed that it doesn't drive nails very well. Others typically buy a great hammer and pound screws with it.
I've got several screwdrivers
and several hammers in my tool box. Not only can I avoid using screwdrivers on nails, I can even choose the right sized hammer for any given nail (and the right size screwdriver for screws)!
Use the 85mm f/1.4 for when you want to shoot portraits at f/2.8. Use the 85mm f/1.8 when you want sharp low light images that require a large aperture. For those applications, those are the two most cost effective tools you'll find, but neither of them are good for both jobs.