other thing Im wondering is if white
balance changes as these flashes get old?
Anything changes color, but age alone is not a big or quick factor. Color temperature of speedlights primarily changes with power level, and of course with external factors like bounce or diffusion.
Any flash tube burst quickly rises to a strong peak, bluewhite hot so to speak, and then it decays away over a millisecond or so, to zero, becoming cooler and red on the way. For xenon tubes, this duration averages out to the color we call daylight.
But speedlights implement lower power by abruptly truncating the flash duration. This leaves the hot blue part, and removes the cool red tail part.
So we see speedlights (any of them) change colors with power level. So if you are walking around the room into different situations with automatic flash, you see big changes.
Nikon, and I think Canon, implement what Nikon calls Flash Color Temperature Information, where the hot shoe flash communicates a color temperature to the camera, based on the amount of flash power that was actually used in this current shot. This only works on the hot shoe, where it can be reported, and it only works for Auto WB settings, where it can be changed. But in this situation with variable distances, you see color temperature change widely in your JPG files. It's a good thing.
This has no effect on external factors of course.