Nikon bothered to fight banding almost
completely, and Canon didn't (banding has nothing to do with pixel
density; it is a line-by-line blackpoint calibration issue).
In general I agree with your criticism of the high photosite density
is always bad argument; but I disagree with your statement above. If
you leave everything else alone and increase the pixel count the
banding will get worse. This is because the per pixel signal to
banding noise will go down and this is not fully compensated for by
the change in size of the noise. This is similar but worse than
(because of the correlation of banding noise) the effect for read
amplifier noise where the pixel capacitance and amplifier noise tend
to stay constant so the signal to read noise gets worse
proportionally to the pixel area ratio. Re-sampling only improves SNR
by the square root of that ratio so it doesn't return all of the lost
signal to read noise. This is different than shot noise which scales
by the square root of pixel area so re-sampling exactly corrects for
photosite size changes when QE stays constant.