yes, that can happen with HDR- but such a reaction exposes an interesting divide.
Photography gives a ("deliberately" / "inescapably") narrow view of the world compared with normal experience.
Photography, for some, is about a decisive moment image. Those with this approach often embrace the camera's limited dynamic range creatively, to help illustrate dazzling or gloomy lighting conditions. The picture becomes amongst other things "about" the too-light or the too-dark. After all, when the light is bright in our eyes we are briefly dazzled, when the shadows are dark we need a moment to adapt.
Other people want a photograph to be a rich world you can explore at your leisure, turning your attention progressively from the sky into the deepest shadows. These people obsess about posterised darks and blown highlights (and sometimes - gasp - noise), longing for a perfect sensor and kind even lighting so you can see everything you wish to - just like when standing still for a while in the real world.
HDR is for these people (so is fill flash).
Each group's work can be as genuine and worthwhile - but how we struggle to understand each other!
RP