here's a little background so you can judge my experience. started
lighting in the film and TV industry in '84 or '83. can't really
remember. been a lighting director, gaffer, light board operator
and lamp operator. started shooting in '97 or '98, forgot which.
became a full time shooter in 2001, started digital in mid 2001. as
a content shooter I shoot in excess of 5,000 images a week. have
used up 2 Fuji S1's, 4 Fuji S2's and burned out a Nikon D70. went
through novatron, JTL, profoto and photogenics light kits. now
using speedatron. been through 3 computer systems

been messing
around in Photoshop since Photoshop 3.5, there is more that I don't
know than I do know about photography.
here's a quote to get you started in the right direction with yer
quest -->
I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination.
Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited.
Imagination encircles the world.
so the main advice I suppose would be to see the photography in
'yer heart' as far as the techy stuff, that's no big deal really.
you have a digital camera? I'm gonna take a giant leap here and
assume you do, I mean after all this is a digital forum. so whilst
in the camera store go look at those 'how to shoot
glamour/fashion/nudes/wedding/or-what-ever books on the rack, look
at the lighting set up, run home and try it! the main issue will be
models. I can't tell you how many times I've seen non-effective
models posted on this forum. when joe blow at home looks at pic in
a mag, he's not thinking wow! 1/3 of a stop hot from the right
cross with 2 stops down on the fill and a really great blue wash on
the couch in the background and the softbox key emulates natural
window light. that's amazing!!! the guy is gonna be looking at the
models thinking 'unclean thoughts' and the gals are gonna be
looking at the models thinking "gee, I wish that was me' pretty
simple really.
so in answer to yer question: is it the lighting, is it Photoshop?
it's yer vision, hard work and perseverance using a combination of
the tools you have to work with. and always remember this: there is
a fashion guy shooting with on camera flash, point and shoot that
is making a good living, well respected in his field and producing
very valid product.
don't give up because the task seems so confusing, overwhelming and
difficult. just start working toward yer goals and the 'sights in
yer eye' no big deal really. any good lite kit such as novatron or
alien bees and a few boxes, bounces and umbrellas will be enough to
get started. go to the Photoshop forum here at this site and start
messing around with the stuff the members are posting. shoot lots
of images, learn to work with models and in no time at all you'll
be where you want to be
-bmb