Why would even consider a DSLR today. The models that you mention can't compete with Sony's AF system. Also, using a modern EVF is far superior to optical VF. With EVF you get WYSIWYG so you much more likely to properly expose.
Well..
I'm a big advocate of mirrorless. I'm fine with an EVF and I like using legacy manual focus lenses.
However, a good optical viewfinder is a joy forever...
I guess it comes down to whether the SLR does everything you want from it and what infrastructure (lenses etc) you have access to. Once you are beyond that (and assuming there are no personal quirks you are willing to take a financial hit for), I guess it should just come down to price.
The DSLR is just as capable a camera now as it was 10 years ago when it was regarded (by many) as 'king'.
I agree you can't beat an optical VF. I'm finding the EVF to be a right pain. Worst thing on mirrorless cameras. Like watching poor quality video. Even worse in low light.
As for exposure it not set up for RAW. The difference between RAW and JPEG's is considerable on Sony.
According to 1 pro who used both A7lll and the D780, for a number of years, the A7lll is no better for AF.
Apparently the a7iii, doesn't have real-time tracking like the later models.
I have to wonder where you guys had trouble with EVFs in a prior life. The EVFs on my a1II and a9III are astounding and wonderful. BTW, I have tons of experience with OVFs, going back to my first serious camera, a TLR, followed by excellent SLRs and DSLRs, until I purchased my first Sony in 2018, an a9.
The a9's EVF allowed me to see, for the first time, what the recording media was seeing. WYSIWYG can't be beat! There's no excuse for getting the exposure wrong, particularly with Zebras set to show blown out RAW highlights.
I know that the OP is long gone, but MF lenses just don't work for BIF and wild animals on the run, which is one of my main interests, and an expressed interest of the OP. I remember MF well, and it just CANNOT compete with modern AF when it comes to getting an eagle's eye tack sharp as it flies directly at the camera. MF is fine for landscape, but throw a human in there