To close this off, I ended up canceling my subscription with adobe before the end of the free trial.
The website would not let me cancel, just saying "you'l be able to manage your subscription shortly".
The support page brought me to a location where i could try and cancel but clicking "cancel" just gave an "unspecified error".
So, onto their chat. Support offered a discount for 3 months, but threw the legalese at me when i asked about cancellation fees.
The fact that the cancelation fees they are charging & the difficulty in canceling are being challenged by the US Dept of Justice tells me a lot.
Ill give Luminar a go, maybe affinity.
Im sure they are not as streamlined as lightroom, but as photography is not my income, i can afford to try alternatives.