PC laptop recommendation for mac user

A fresh clone battery is on its way and I'll see if that makes it last a bit longer. It never ever achieved the advertised "10 hours" no matter what I tried.
I've procured industrial Li-ion batteries in the past. The clones can be truly junk and dangerous as well.
I surely doubt whether any clone battery on the planet could be worse than those OEM Lenovo batteries I've experienced.

In fairness possibly Lenovo gets some minor brand x laptop company to make their lesser products like the C340. It happens with other companies such as many big name brand compact cameras in the old days were produced by Sanyo.
Changed my C340 battery and now is charging. Meanwhile when I turned the C340 upside down to disembowel it I saw the makers label and in fine print it says "made for Lenovo" so my third party maker guess was right. No mention of who did make it, possibly some Foxconn lookalike.
 
I just checked on the Dell U.S. site and that XPS 15 with the i7-13700H, RTX 4070, 16gb/512gb is currently $2229 vs. $2549 for the one above with 32gb/1tb so a $320 difference to go from 16gb to 32gb and 512gb to 1tb. Probably the 16gb is two 8gb sticks so it would mean buying two 16gb sticks and removing the included two 8gb sticks. Then buying a 1tb SSD would mean removing the 512gb SSD and cloning Windows, etc. to the new 1tb SSD. How much money would one save by doing all that?
A 1TB Samsung 980 Pro goes for 80USD at Newegg. A 32 GB (2 X 16) RAM kit at Crucial is 99USD.

There could be additional cost for cloning the SSD, if you don't already have the software and/or hardware.

The value of the removed 512GB SSD and 16GB of RAM, I don't know. I suppose you could get a few dollars for them on eBay.

Whether it'd be worthwhile to anyone to save $141, at the risk of losing warranty coverage, I can't say. Some might do it just out of annoyance with the excessive profits made by Dell on the upgraded SSD and RAM.
For some people the $141 savings would be worth all the trouble, but not for me. And I would also have a pang because of the feeling of waste of two 8gb RAM sticks and a 512gb SSD. :-)

I have done upgrades on my own Windows laptops before, but only once did I intentionally buy one with less and planning to immediately upgrade it myself. In 2019 I bought a Dell laptop with 16gb and I knew I would immediately upgrade it to 32gb. But, before buying I checked and this Dell laptop had 2 memory slots and I knew Dell put in a single 16gb stick so all I had to do was order another 16gb stick. No waste. When I put it in I then had 32gb and went from single channel to dual channel too.

In other cases I did small upgrades to older laptops such as after a few years using one which had 4gb RAM I then upgraded it to 8gb. And two other old laptops which had HDDs in them I later put in SSDs. All still running fine.

And, of course, with Apple Silicon you cannot update the RAM or SSD.
 
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Whether it'd be worthwhile to anyone to save $141, at the risk of losing warranty coverage, I can't say.
A few years ago I asked a Dell rep if simply opening the case and upgrading storage and memory would void the warranty--she said it would not.

The Dell service manuals that anyone can download from their support website give detailed, illustrated instructions on how to do memory and storage replacement; that makes me believe she was telling the truth.

So unless someone actually breaks something in the process, the warranty should survive. I don't claim to be a laptop repair expert, and I've upgraded memory and storage on multiple 15"-17" Dell laptops without incident.

However, since I haven't ever needed to use a laptop's warranty, I cannot be absolutely certain.
I agree with Austinian. I've done some XPS servicing myself. My current model service manual (XPS13 9320) says Damage due to servicing that is not authorized by Dell is not covered by your warranty.

So if you don't cause any damage, seems that the warranty is still good.

And make sure the RAM is socketed, not soldered. I've seen both with XPS laptops.

And use exactly the size and types of screwdrivers (Torx) that they specify. The screw-heads are designed to be tamper-proof with more common screwdrivers.

Read the manual carefully including all the warnings before you decide to do it yourself.
 
A fresh clone battery is on its way and I'll see if that makes it last a bit longer. It never ever achieved the advertised "10 hours" no matter what I tried.
I've procured industrial Li-ion batteries in the past. The clones can be truly junk and dangerous as well.
I surely doubt whether any clone battery on the planet could be worse than those OEM Lenovo batteries I've experienced.

In fairness possibly Lenovo gets some minor brand x laptop company to make their lesser products like the C340. It happens with other companies such as many big name brand compact cameras in the old days were produced by Sanyo.
Changed my C340 battery and now is charging. Meanwhile when I turned the C340 upside down to disembowel it I saw the makers label and in fine print it says "made for Lenovo" so my third party maker guess was right. No mention of who did make it, possibly some Foxconn lookalike.
No laptop maker makes their own batteries. They are all made by battery manufacturers. But the OEM versions are made to the laptop company's quality standards. Some of the clones are junk. Often they will print "made for Lenovo" (or Dell, etc.) on the battery.

The only way to get a real OEM battery is by ordering it from the OEM, or from a verified OEM retail channel.
 
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A fresh clone battery is on its way and I'll see if that makes it last a bit longer. It never ever achieved the advertised "10 hours" no matter what I tried.
I've procured industrial Li-ion batteries in the past. The clones can be truly junk and dangerous as well.
I surely doubt whether any clone battery on the planet could be worse than those OEM Lenovo batteries I've experienced.

In fairness possibly Lenovo gets some minor brand x laptop company to make their lesser products like the C340. It happens with other companies such as many big name brand compact cameras in the old days were produced by Sanyo.
Changed my C340 battery and now is charging. Meanwhile when I turned the C340 upside down to disembowel it I saw the makers label and in fine print it says "made for Lenovo" so my third party maker guess was right. No mention of who did make it, possibly some Foxconn lookalike.
No laptop maker makes their own batteries.
Yes, I realise that.
They are all made by battery manufacturers. But the OEM versions are made to the laptop company's quality standards. Some of the clones are junk. Often they will print "made for Lenovo" (or Dell, etc.) on the battery.

The only way to get a real OEM battery is by ordering it from the OEM, or from a verified OEM retail channel.
The OEM was so bad that I reason that no clone could be any worse, hence my clone battery. A quick check a "genuine" Lenovo battery about AU$180, the clone delivered to my door was about AU$70, guess which makes more sense to me?

For vague possible interest, here's the underside of the original battery that I removed....

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The battery is close to the width of the keyboard above it and is apparently 4 flat cells housed in a plastic frame that is about 4mm thick, the cells are seemingly thinner than 4mm hence the visible outlines underneath a black plastic film stuck over the whole underside.

The C340 underside before I removed that battery....

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The i7 and its heat pipe centre top, 500gig M2 SSD just to the right of the battery.

Easy peasy to access, a bunch of micro Torx head screws and then pop the very flimsy base cover off to reveal that above.

Now testing the new battery, the old one (near 4 years old when I checked my receipts) gave me 10 minutes of run time if I was lucky, the new one so far has lost 12% in one hour, so is better by indicating that I could get 8 hiors out of it.
 
Since you are a Mac user then you will probably be interested in this:

2023 Dell XPS 15 vs 16" MacBook Pro


I have exactly the same Mac as in the video so it was interesting to me too. The Dell is looking pretty darn good. I also have multiple Windows 10 laptops (3 Dell, 1 HP) and the Dell in the video does very well compared to the Mac.

16" M2 Pro 12/19 Macbook Pro 32gb/1tb

vs.

Dell XPS 15, i7-13700H, Nvidia RTX 4070 8gb, 32gb/1tb: US$2549
(Dell almost always gives discounts if you contact them before ordering so probably less)

Lightroom Classic Denoise AI will use the 4070's Tensor cores so will run much faster than on Apple Silicon Macs because Apple broke the Neural Engine over a year ago with Ventura and after 20 Ventura releases and 3 Sonoma releases has still not fixed it. Therefore Adobe has disabled the Neural Engine code in LrC and uses the slower GPU instead.
The other great thing about the XPS is upgradability. You can buy it with the minimum ram, and ssd size, but with the biggest GPU and then save a ton of money upgrading the ram and SSD yourself. While you are in there, do a repaste of the heatsinks and fans turn on 1/4 as much as the heatsinks are doing their jobs correctly.
I just checked on the Dell U.S. site and that XPS 15 with the i7-13700H, RTX 4070, 16gb/512gb is currently $2229 vs. $2549 for the one above with 32gb/1tb so a $320 difference to go from 16gb to 32gb and 512gb to 1tb. Probably the 16gb is two 8gb sticks so it would mean buying two 16gb sticks and removing the included two 8gb sticks. Then buying a 1tb SSD would mean removing the 512gb SSD and cloning Windows, etc. to the new 1tb SSD. How much money would one save by doing all that?

And then after it is done one would have leftover two 8gb RAM sticks and a 512gb SSD that many people would have no more use for. If the XPS 15 is able to hold two SSDs though then that would be great.

The one above has the standard display. If you upgrade to the OLED display then the price goes up, of course.

That is good info about the thermal paste. Unfortunate that Dell does not do it already.

The Dell upgrade prices, at least, are not as ridiculous as Apple. For Apple going from 16gb to 32gb and 512gb to 1tb is $600.
I can get the same upgrades for 1/3 the cost of dell. That's quite a bit of saving. Also everything you stated takes 30 min to do and it's easily done using a usb drive. Create a back up, remove old drive, install new drive and re install your back up. You make sound like it's days of work. IT was back in the days of 286 pcs. Today. 30 min after you have your back up complete you are re installing your back up again. I priced going from 16 to 64 gb of ram and you save 500 dollars. I also upgraded to 4tb doing my calculations using the fastest ssd right now, the Seagate 530 and I would save another 400 dollars by installing that myself instead of some slow ssd drive that dell would stick in there.
 
A fresh clone battery is on its way and I'll see if that makes it last a bit longer. It never ever achieved the advertised "10 hours" no matter what I tried.
I've procured industrial Li-ion batteries in the past. The clones can be truly junk and dangerous as well.
I surely doubt whether any clone battery on the planet could be worse than those OEM Lenovo batteries I've experienced.

In fairness possibly Lenovo gets some minor brand x laptop company to make their lesser products like the C340. It happens with other companies such as many big name brand compact cameras in the old days were produced by Sanyo.
Changed my C340 battery and now is charging. Meanwhile when I turned the C340 upside down to disembowel it I saw the makers label and in fine print it says "made for Lenovo" so my third party maker guess was right. No mention of who did make it, possibly some Foxconn lookalike.
No laptop maker makes their own batteries.
Yes, I realise that.
They are all made by battery manufacturers. But the OEM versions are made to the laptop company's quality standards. Some of the clones are junk. Often they will print "made for Lenovo" (or Dell, etc.) on the battery.

The only way to get a real OEM battery is by ordering it from the OEM, or from a verified OEM retail channel.
The OEM was so bad that I reason that no clone could be any worse, hence my clone battery. A quick check a "genuine" Lenovo battery about AU$180, the clone delivered to my door was about AU$70, guess which makes more sense to me?

For vague possible interest, here's the underside of the original battery that I removed....

1ac4dff863f24f1c926a655ec587f69c.jpg

The battery is close to the width of the keyboard above it and is apparently 4 flat cells housed in a plastic frame that is about 4mm thick, the cells are seemingly thinner than 4mm hence the visible outlines underneath a black plastic film stuck over the whole underside.

The C340 underside before I removed that battery....

67da42e2e1dd48daa782d7813e606400.jpg

The i7 and its heat pipe centre top, 500gig M2 SSD just to the right of the battery.

Easy peasy to access, a bunch of micro Torx head screws and then pop the very flimsy base cover off to reveal that above.

Now testing the new battery, the old one (near 4 years old when I checked my receipts) gave me 10 minutes of run time if I was lucky, the new one so far has lost 12% in one hour, so is better by indicating that I could get 8 hiors out of it.
My OEM dell battery gave me around 6-8hrs of battery life in my current system depending on what I was doing. I realized that there was a larger battery available in some models, but it was not an option when I bought mine. So I did what anyone would do, I bought the larger battery. Now I get 10-12 hrs out of it depending and it was an easy peasy install.

Follow instructions and keep every screw where they came from and you can't mess up if you take your time. Also, OEM batteries are just other batteries with a label stuck on them. They are not magical oddities. Mine is not a OEM dell battery but it is exactly the same when it comes to power in/power out. That's all that matters.

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Changed my C340 battery and now is charging. Meanwhile when I turned the C340 upside down to disembowel it I saw the makers label and in fine print it says "made for Lenovo" so my third party maker guess was right. No mention of who did make it, possibly some Foxconn lookalike.
No laptop maker makes their own batteries.
Yes, I realise that.
They are all made by battery manufacturers. But the OEM versions are made to the laptop company's quality standards. Some of the clones are junk. Often they will print "made for Lenovo" (or Dell, etc.) on the battery.

The only way to get a real OEM battery is by ordering it from the OEM, or from a verified OEM retail channel.
The OEM was so bad that I reason that no clone could be any worse, hence my clone battery.
Your OEM battery might have been defective. It should provide the rated capacity during the warranty period and can be replaced under warranty -- often even after warranty as the laptop manufacturers have been sued for bodily harm (chemical burns) due to defective batteries.
A quick check a "genuine" Lenovo battery about AU$180, the clone delivered to my door was about AU$70, guess which makes more sense to me?
The OEM version at $180 is a better deal. The primary failure mechanism results in progressive swelling, which can flex the keyboard, causing intermittent keystroke shorts for a while before more significant damage is visible.
 
I just checked on the Dell U.S. site and that XPS 15 with the i7-13700H, RTX 4070, 16gb/512gb is currently $2229 vs. $2549 for the one above with 32gb/1tb so a $320 difference to go from 16gb to 32gb and 512gb to 1tb. Probably the 16gb is two 8gb sticks so it would mean buying two 16gb sticks and removing the included two 8gb sticks. Then buying a 1tb SSD would mean removing the 512gb SSD and cloning Windows, etc. to the new 1tb SSD. How much money would one save by doing all that?

And then after it is done one would have leftover two 8gb RAM sticks and a 512gb SSD that many people would have no more use for. If the XPS 15 is able to hold two SSDs though then that would be great.
Less than $150 apparently. Not worth it for me, nor for most people.
The Dell upgrade prices, at least, are not as ridiculous as Apple. For Apple going from 16gb to 32gb and 512gb to 1tb is $600.
Yay Dell with a crooked E! for selling upgrades at a reasonable premium. And for having such excellent maintenance documentation.

Too bad the XPS doesn't have a numeric keypad. Dell laptops that do seem less attractive.
 
I just checked on the Dell U.S. site and that XPS 15 with the i7-13700H, RTX 4070, 16gb/512gb is currently $2229 vs. $2549 for the one above with 32gb/1tb so a $320 difference to go from 16gb to 32gb and 512gb to 1tb. Probably the 16gb is two 8gb sticks so it would mean buying two 16gb sticks and removing the included two 8gb sticks. Then buying a 1tb SSD would mean removing the 512gb SSD and cloning Windows, etc. to the new 1tb SSD. How much money would one save by doing all that?

And then after it is done one would have leftover two 8gb RAM sticks and a 512gb SSD that many people would have no more use for. If the XPS 15 is able to hold two SSDs though then that would be great.
Less than $150 apparently. Not worth it for me, nor for most people.
The Dell upgrade prices, at least, are not as ridiculous as Apple. For Apple going from 16gb to 32gb and 512gb to 1tb is $600.
Yay Dell with a crooked E! for selling upgrades at a reasonable premium. And for having such excellent maintenance documentation.

Too bad the XPS doesn't have a numeric keypad. Dell laptops that do seem less attractive.
I'm glad the XPS don't have 'em; they have a tendency to push the touchpad and alpha keyboard off-center to the display. That annoys me.

How about a nice Precision mobile workstation? Keypad included on the larger sizes. A tech writer friend of mine had one for years and loved it.
 
The OEM was so bad that I reason that no clone could be any worse, hence my clone battery.
Your OEM battery might have been defective. It should provide the rated capacity during the warranty period and can be replaced under warranty -- often even after warranty as the laptop manufacturers have been sued for bodily harm (chemical burns) due to defective batteries.
Just poor quality batteries that never ever did behave as the advertising indicated, never managed 10 hours life on my i7 version or on my grandson's later bought i5 version. Eight hours was about the limit when new and quickly faded to unusable as a portable after maybe a year or so. Needed to be connected to power at all times after a couple of years. Happens always outside of warranty of course.

Basically not directly Lenovo's fault as the laptop was built by some third party for them. Probably Lenovo should have checked what their supplier was providing them a bit more carefully.

As I said earlier I am now down to HP as the only reliable laptops that I have ever used so will stick with them, though I do remember that I had a little 10 inch notebook by MSI that gave me many years of trouble free use when travelling but had to retire it as it really struggled when updated to Win10. MSI is not seen very often in Australia.
A quick check a "genuine" Lenovo battery about AU$180, the clone delivered to my door was about AU$70, guess which makes more sense to me?
The OEM version at $180 is a better deal.
What and risk another battery pack that drops to 10 minutes life after 4 years?

No way, I will play with a much cheaper clone from now on and report back in 4 years how it went.
The primary failure mechanism results in progressive swelling, which can flex the keyboard, causing intermittent keystroke shorts for a while before more significant damage is visible.
There is absolutely no sign of swelling in any of the four flat cells, I will try to carefully rip the pack open to see if I can identify the possibly one bad cell and see who made them, then of course they will be taped safely and put in the battery recycling bin at a local store.
 
Yay Dell with a crooked E! for selling upgrades at a reasonable premium. And for having such excellent maintenance documentation.

Too bad the XPS doesn't have a numeric keypad. Dell laptops that do seem less attractive.
I'm glad the XPS don't have 'em; they have a tendency to push the touchpad and alpha keyboard off-center to the display. That annoys me.
Touchpad location is irrelevant. My wife has it deactivated. On her HP Omen 17, it doesn't work well enough to be usable anyway. We both prefer a mouse. (On Macbooks, with better palm rejection, I use 3-finger swipe to switch desktops, sometimes 2-finger scroll.)

Not only the numeric keypad, but the PageUp and PageDown buttons are useful, along with Home and End.
How about a nice Precision mobile workstation? Keypad included on the larger sizes. A tech writer friend of mine had one for years and loved it.
Good suggestion, but they all have the pointless overpriced GPU, formerly Quadro. I'll admit, price is reasonable for what they deliver, especially build quality.
 
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How loud are the fans on that HP Victus:

* Under heavy graphics loads

* Normal surfing or office apps

* idling

Thanks!
So far under Photolab DeepPRIME XD multi image batch, the fans did not speed up at all from their near silent normal running. No games will ever be run on it. Found the screen refresh rate was at 144 so set it back to 60, that may also help a bit (unknown).

The only time the fans got noisy so far was when I did a BIOS update soon after first turning it on. After that it seems to be always quiet.

The noises in my ear (tinnitus) easily drown out quiet things like the fans at normal running. :-(

So far completely happy, it does of course run in a coolish room downstairs in my house, it may be different in a hot room.

Next need to suss out why my old Spyder3 thing won't install on it. I may need to buy something more recent for the attached monitor calibration.
I have a solid high pitched tone, at times loud, tinnitus. So I can chuckle when some complain of coil whine. Never hear it, never will.
 
How loud are the fans on that HP Victus:

* Under heavy graphics loads

* Normal surfing or office apps

* idling

Thanks!
The noises in my ear (tinnitus) easily drown out quiet things like the fans at normal running. :-(
I have a solid high pitched tone, at times loud, tinnitus. So I can chuckle when some complain of coil whine. Never hear it, never will.
I guess it's Menieres disease (used to get vertigo attacks until I strictly controlled sodium intake) gives me about 2% hearing in my right ear but a nice zinging tinnitus all the time.

Meanwhile in my left ear I have pulsatile tinnitus so can hear everything that my heart is doing. Weird, it stops, pauses at times, then goes back to "normal" then might hit a run of double speed for no reason then drop back to usual beat. Blood Pressure controlled perfectly for my age, just this blood pump inside me does acrobatics at times. Weird to sit and listen, normally I manage to mentally tune it out.
 
How loud are the fans on that HP Victus:

* Under heavy graphics loads

* Normal surfing or office apps

* idling

Thanks!
So far under Photolab DeepPRIME XD multi image batch, the fans did not speed up at all from their near silent normal running. No games will ever be run on it. Found the screen refresh rate was at 144 so set it back to 60, that may also help a bit (unknown).

The only time the fans got noisy so far was when I did a BIOS update soon after first turning it on. After that it seems to be always quiet.

The noises in my ear (tinnitus) easily drown out quiet things like the fans at normal running. :-(

So far completely happy, it does of course run in a coolish room downstairs in my house, it may be different in a hot room.

Next need to suss out why my old Spyder3 thing won't install on it. I may need to buy something more recent for the attached monitor calibration.
I have a solid high pitched tone, at times loud, tinnitus. So I can chuckle when some complain of coil whine. Never hear it, never will.
Yes, me too. I have constant coil whine. From blowing up a fire cracker close to my ear when I was 10. Since that day I have 30 precent hearing loss in that ear and constant ringing.

It's funny different strains of cannabis makes it do different things. Some make it go away completely, some make it 10 times louder. All depends. Ha ha.

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Meanwhile in my left ear I have pulsatile tinnitus so can hear everything that my heart is doing. Weird, it stops, pauses at times, then goes back to "normal" then might hit a run of double speed for no reason then drop back to usual beat. Blood Pressure controlled perfectly for my age, just this blood pump inside me does acrobatics at times. Weird to sit and listen, normally I manage to mentally tune it out.
Have you been checked out by a cardiologist? That sounds like it might be what they call "paroxysmal atrial fibrillation"? Treatable, not terrible, but can progress.
 
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Meanwhile in my left ear I have pulsatile tinnitus so can hear everything that my heart is doing. Weird, it stops, pauses at times, then goes back to "normal" then might hit a run of double speed for no reason then drop back to usual beat. Blood Pressure controlled perfectly for my age, just this blood pump inside me does acrobatics at times. Weird to sit and listen, normally I manage to mentally tune it out.
Have you been checked out by a cardiologist? That sounds like it might be what they call "paroxysmal atrial fibrillation"? Treatable, not terrible, but can progress.
Thanks Doc. My long term doctor (visiting her over 10 years or so) thought it minor and not troubled by it. Then she up and went away to join the Royal Flying Doctor Service so now had to discover a fresh doctor that I could handle. I'll hit the new doc with all my accumulated concerns and see what happens....

My wife is on a bunch of medication for what happens to be the same problem, but hers was bad enough that I had to take her direct to hospital where she spent a day or two under observation and had new medication sorted out.

In my case brief episodes, been happening for years, maybe last from a couple of seconds up to maybe 15 minutes. Unknown cause of onset, it just happens, then goes away unpredictably. Blood pressure always good, before/during/after. I rarely drink alcohol and then only wine or beer, never smoked, not too much coffee consumed.

Anyway, I'd way prefer to drop dead from heart failure than to spend years rotting away in some old folks establishment. Too much to do at home, got to keep working.

I've gone past my dad's age and also my older brother's age when they died, but need to do well a lot longer to get to my mum's age when she died (close to 98).

I'll let you know when I drop off the twig how I did. :-)
 
Meanwhile in my left ear I have pulsatile tinnitus so can hear everything that my heart is doing. Weird, it stops, pauses at times, then goes back to "normal" then might hit a run of double speed for no reason then drop back to usual beat. Blood Pressure controlled perfectly for my age, just this blood pump inside me does acrobatics at times. Weird to sit and listen, normally I manage to mentally tune it out.
Have you been checked out by a cardiologist? That sounds like it might be what they call "paroxysmal atrial fibrillation"? Treatable, not terrible, but can progress.
Thanks Doc.
More like a fellow sufferer. But I've got a white jacket in the closet if I need it. :-)
My long term doctor (visiting her over 10 years or so) thought it minor and not troubled by it. Then she up and went away to join the Royal Flying Doctor Service so now had to discover a fresh doctor that I could handle. I'll hit the new doc with all my accumulated concerns and see what happens....

My wife is on a bunch of medication for what happens to be the same problem, but hers was bad enough that I had to take her direct to hospital where she spent a day or two under observation and had new medication sorted out.

In my case brief episodes, been happening for years, maybe last from a couple of seconds up to maybe 15 minutes. Unknown cause of onset, it just happens, then goes away unpredictably. Blood pressure always good, before/during/after. I rarely drink alcohol and then only wine or beer, never smoked, not too much coffee consumed.

Anyway, I'd way prefer to drop dead from heart failure than to spend years rotting away in some old folks establishment. Too much to do at home, got to keep working.
Agreed. SWMBO's mother spent her last years of dementia in such a place. "Depressing" doesn't begin to cover it. :-(
I've gone past my dad's age and also my older brother's age when they died, but need to do well a lot longer to get to my mum's age when she died (close to 98).

I'll let you know when I drop off the twig how I did. :-)
I'll get a Ouija board if you go first. ;-)
 

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