So the DOF / background blur /bokeh (with the same lens design) depends on the subject & background distance.
With m43 you have a narrower FOW than with a APS-sensor with that same lens, as yu already know.
So let's think about a classic headshot. With a Fuji you may be at about 2-3 m distance form the model, and with m43 at about 4m, for the same framing (not exact distances, but...). let's assume, that you are shooting full open for some reason, maybe to get the softest background possible.
So, with Fuji you are closer, DOF is smaller and blur stronger. With mFT you are further form the model and you have larger DOF. The quality of bokeh... well, for that you have to also check the background quality and lights.
You are searching the same lens for both systems, with same lens design etc, so the only thing that changes between systems is the field of view on the sensor.
Remember also the aspect ratios of the sensors - do you usually use 2:3 , 3:4 or something else for portraits and everything else you think you'll use this lens for. If you crop the Fuji for 3:4 , there is not too much difference anymore... But if you crop m43 to 2:3, the difference is larger.
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Jouko
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