First all, bokeh is the term we use to describe the quality of the out of focus areas of an image. The out of focus areas are the areas which fall outside of the depth of field. Everything within the depth of field will be "acceptably" in focus. In the first picture you posted the subject being in focus with the background blurred. That is the result of a shallow depth of field (DoF). The subject is within the DoF while the background is outside of the DoF making it blurry. The bokeh is roundish and smooth.
DoF is dependent on 3 things: Aperture, Distance to subject, and focal length.
To make your DoF larger you can:
DoF is dependent on 3 things: Aperture, Distance to subject, and focal length.
To make your DoF larger you can:
- Use a narrower aperture
- Get further back from your subject (increase the distance to your subject)
- Use a wider focal length
- Use a wider aperture
- Get closer to your subject (decrease the distance to your subject)
- Use a longer focal length