- If you do not need zoom in, don´t do it
- You need to care your handling to decide for a shutter speed. The famous 1/FL rule can work for some people, but others could require a lot more either for its own handling or for his/her image sensor resolution. I use as minimum for my D810 1/FL if I am using a lens with VR engaged and 1/(3*FL) otherwise
- Your subject can be very active. For birds in fly, the minimum speed I use is 1/1000 second, ideally faster. Sports (and I think it could be include a very active toddler), 1/500 seconds
- Special care if you are shooting handheld with shallow DoF. I use AF-C and maintains the mechanism active all the time when the aperture is wide (f/1.4-4). One slightly movement can put your subject completely out of focus if you are using a shallow DoF
- Practice. Practice
All the best,
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O.Cristo - An Amateur Photographer
Opinions of men are almost as various as their faces - so many men so many minds. B. Franklin
Thanks... I'm not sure what you meant by #1 - I was using a prime lens. I wasn't cropping the photo either. I just looked at it as if I was going to print an 8X10 and it looked trashy - so I knew it wasn't good enough to keep... lol
#2 - Yeah I thought 250 was close to the 1/3FL to stop it - but I must be shakier than most! haha
#3 - My subject CAN be active - but in this case they weren't. They were being really good and sitting in this little prop bed I had. It's not a hand of foot that's blurred - it's the entire photo - so that's all me.

But I'll try a minimum of 1/500 next time to see if that helps. (And I'll start weening myself off caffeine - couldn't hurt... lol)
#4 - I had it on AF-C but on back button so I would let go once I thought I had it in focus. I had it around F3.2 so I wasn't shooting SUPER shallow... some of the shots turned out great. I'll try boosting the ISO to shoot faster while keeping the Aperture where it was and see if that works.