For general-purpose photography, HDR is the better solution - it yields the same noise reduction and DR improvements as stacking with only a fraction of the images required. I touched on this in the OP - the reason I'm using stacking on the J4 is simply because it doesn't have exposure bracketing. My ideal solution would be a 20-frame burst @ 60fps with the camera bracketing in 1EV increments, yielding a full 20EV capture. That would produce a very low noise high DR scene. You wouldn't even need to meter in many cases.
I should clarify first, that my earlier comments about HDR methods, in my post below, were assuming that shutter speed would be kept the same or similar; in this case the limit to DR improvement is subject to the shape of the camera's DR curve across its ISO range. In practice, it is often necessary to restrict shutter-speed range, but when a tripod and more time are available, HDR technique can be extended through use of long exposure times for the shadow areas.
How would one achieve a 20-EV bracket? That is a 1,000,000:1 exposure range. It is not likely that one would want to vary aperture much, as that would cause areas in the image to have different DOF. Neither would one want to use very high ISO settings, which would be contrary to the goal of high SNR. That puts most of the burden of exposure bracketing onto shutter speed, meaning that the highest exposures would require very long exposure times.
Even a much more modest 10-EV bracket would be difficult or impossible to do at a high frame rate. One could easily see the practical difficulties by postulating a typical example and working out the numbers. I'll leave that as an exercise for the reader.
Ultimately, without resorting to stacking, you are still limited by the FWC of the sensels, which establishes the upper limit on signal-to-shot-noise ratio. In the case of Nikon 1 sensors, that is not terribly high.