Your not the only one.
To be fair, my experience has been with some pretty high end EVF cameras (A77 and A99) and some pretty low end or old OVF cameras (a33, old Nikon nikkormat).
Manual focusing always tired out my eyes before I found focus peaking. Trying to nail the focus at just the right spot use to consume me at times, now, I see peaking and if I really want to verify, I zoom in.
The WYSIWYG exposure is nice. Many like to poo-poo it as for amateurs, but I do understand very well how to use the metering, still sometimes I see something and get too excited to look at what I left my camera set for on that picture I took yesterday before I start clicking off images. With settings effects turned on, I'll immediately be reminded of the wild abstract things I was trying the day before with white balance, etc, before trying to take nice clean wildlife pictures when the rare buck comes through the yard.
And in low light, it becomes so intuitive to use that I'm sure 90% of my nightlife street photography would be 5x worse without it. When you see the EVF get grainy, you know the picture is going to be noisy, beyond my PP expertise kinda noisy. When the EVF starts getting laggy, I know my shutters going to be too slow, and that I really need to brace myself and if anything in the picture moves it's going to blur. I don't have to keep looking at the meter.
In daylight, shooting birds against the sky, I already understood the concept of compensating the exposure for the subject, but exactly how much was often a guessing game and would lead to shoot and test or bracketing. Now I do neither, and I'm rarely off, and can view the histogram in real time to check highlights if I am worried about them.
Most other daylight scenes where the camera's metering is going to work just fine and the AF is going to be reliable and accurate, the EVF really doesn't help or hinder in my experience. I do like the level with wide angle lenses, which I'm not very used to using and the level helps me avoid some of the crazy distortions I see others get.