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do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i should. just wondering how you all feel about it
 
At first yes, but then realized that it was not something to worry about.

Morris
do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and
family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but
how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i
should. just wondering how you all feel about it
 
do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and
family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but
how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i
should. just wondering how you all feel about it
I do not post pics of my child on a public site, but I do post pictures on the internet for friends and family to view (I own a few different domain names) since long email downloads can be a pain (although, recently, I've been lazy and just emailed them anyway!) since they don't all have cable modem (which is a crime in and of itself!).

However, if anything, the pics I post for frineds and family are even more conservative than what I would post for general viewing! Weird, huh?

Anyway, the only danger is if some psycho knew the child or could find a way to get to the child, and this danger is far more real just walking through a grocery store than by posting on the internet.

On the other hand, I love to view other people's kids pics to get ideas for my own. In fact, just recently there was a popular thread where this guy cut and pasted his kid all over this one swing set pic that looked way cool. Now I have to try to do the same thing! : )

--joe

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do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and
family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but
how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i
should. just wondering how you all feel about it
I do not post pics of my child on a public site, but I do post
pictures on the internet for friends and family to view (I own a
few different domain names) since long email downloads can be a
pain (although, recently, I've been lazy and just emailed them
anyway!) since they don't all have cable modem (which is a crime in
and of itself!).

However, if anything, the pics I post for frineds and family are
even more conservative than what I would post for general viewing!
Weird, huh?

Anyway, the only danger is if some psycho knew the child or could
find a way to get to the child, and this danger is far more real
just walking through a grocery store than by posting on the
internet.

On the other hand, I love to view other people's kids pics to get
ideas for my own. In fact, just recently there was a popular
thread where this guy cut and pasted his kid all over this one
swing set pic that looked way cool. Now I have to try to do the
same thing! : )

--joe
yeah that was me. it got me started on the topic
 
Anyway, the only danger is if some psycho knew the child or could
find a way to get to the child, and this danger is far more real
just walking through a grocery store than by posting on the
internet.
I've heard these concerns before, and to some degree I buy into them. After all, once its out there you don't know how it will be used.

However, its not clear to what the real danger is? It seems that there are a lot of other ways someone could obtain more threatening information. I'm not trying to minimize the issue, I'd just like to get a better understanding of the threat.

Disrcrete comments and and opinions are welcome.

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Greg
G3 + 420EX
 
I just spent some time Googling this question. There are plenty of sites on the Kid safety on the Internet. Most include recommendations not to post pictures of kids. However, none provide clear justification. The best advice was to add a password to the site. I wish Pbase had that feature.

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Greg
G3 + 420EX
 
do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and
family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but
how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i
should. just wondering how you all feel about it
Hi jason

It is an interesting question or rather "issue".

There are some wackos about ..

But its also now just past a joke nowerdays how paranoid people (we all) are. It is starting to stop us enjoying "normal" lives.

I am not going to be allowed to take pictures at school when / if my son is in a play unless I have written permission from all the parents of all the children in the play ... what is that all about !! - its partly organisations covering their backs because they dont want any possible responsibility at all that there may just may be some bad people about in the world. Well there are some, [not many] bad people, and many of these few infiltrate exactly into schools and the such like so that they can get close to our kids.

My son was playing happily in a paddling pool tonight with some other kids.

I was going to get his swimming costume but was too late, in a moment they were all naked and splashing about in the water.

So I went to take photos of a family of swans instead even though the kids and all that water were very very photogenic ...

I would not have dared to risk any suspicion from asking a print shop to print pictures of naked children even so obviously innocent and even though I have had this discussion with the manager of my local print lab in some detail and am sure they would simply have printed them for me.

So my photos from this evening (rather a lot of them actually) were of

completely naked swans

eh??

Don't think myself my son is any less of an animal than they are ..

well it sure is a funny old world we humans live in these days..

On a serious note:

I do think it is more likely your kids may be harmed by one of their teachers, family members, priests, scout leaders etc or others who are usually close to kids .. than just anyone who sees a picture in the internet.

That is where I imagine all the bad people with an unhealthy interest in children would go - in order to be close to what they obsess about - .

FWIW, This is me ...



childhood for me was perhaps a risky time - I cant remember :-)
Youth was more so - motorcycles, alchohol, accidents, fights etc
Adulthood so far has been less eventful, apart from:
over-stress .. over work ...
Oh and there some scary snakes and people on my travels -
(in truth many were as scared of me)
And now its mostly the fags that are out to get me ....
damn that newsagent !!

And this is my son:



He bled real blood just this evening, from his toe .. just another animal really .. sometimes very much so.

PS: its more dangerous if you have children in one of the areas where you could be just called "collateral damage" or controlled by armed soldiers at checkpoints, whose own children are of course "safe at home" as are those of the commanders explaining about the pity of civilian casualties. [1]

--
Mark

[1] btw thats not politics .. its "humanist" :-) honest
 
Mark,

Nice to put a face with the name.

I agree, I have posted pics of my daughter but sometimes do worry about it. I am more worried though of my daughter say walking to school when that time comes.

The world scares me but I think you must live too. I think if you are smart and not post too much info along with the pics you should be safe.

And you are right, the smokes are your biggest concern.

Mike
do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and
family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but
how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i
should. just wondering how you all feel about it
Hi jason

It is an interesting question or rather "issue".

There are some wackos about ..

But its also now just past a joke nowerdays how paranoid people (we
all) are. It is starting to stop us enjoying "normal" lives.

I am not going to be allowed to take pictures at school when / if
my son is in a play unless I have written permission from all the
parents of all the children in the play ... what is that all about
!! - its partly organisations covering their backs because they
dont want any possible responsibility at all that there may just
may be some bad people about in the world. Well there are some,
[not many] bad people, and many of these few infiltrate exactly
into schools and the such like so that they can get close to our
kids.

My son was playing happily in a paddling pool tonight with some
other kids.
I was going to get his swimming costume but was too late, in a
moment they were all naked and splashing about in the water.

So I went to take photos of a family of swans instead even though
the kids and all that water were very very photogenic ...

I would not have dared to risk any suspicion from asking a print
shop to print pictures of naked children even so obviously innocent
and even though I have had this discussion with the manager of my
local print lab in some detail and am sure they would simply have
printed them for me.

So my photos from this evening (rather a lot of them actually) were of

completely naked swans

eh??

Don't think myself my son is any less of an animal than they are ..

well it sure is a funny old world we humans live in these days..

On a serious note:
I do think it is more likely your kids may be harmed by one of
their teachers, family members, priests, scout leaders etc or
others who are usually close to kids .. than just anyone who sees a
picture in the internet.
That is where I imagine all the bad people with an unhealthy
interest in children would go - in order to be close to what they
obsess about - .

FWIW, This is me ...



childhood for me was perhaps a risky time - I cant remember :-)
Youth was more so - motorcycles, alchohol, accidents, fights etc
Adulthood so far has been less eventful, apart from:
over-stress .. over work ...
Oh and there some scary snakes and people on my travels -
(in truth many were as scared of me)
And now its mostly the fags that are out to get me ....
damn that newsagent !!

And this is my son:



He bled real blood just this evening, from his toe .. just another
animal really .. sometimes very much so.

PS: its more dangerous if you have children in one of the areas
where you could be just called "collateral damage" or controlled by
armed soldiers at checkpoints, whose own children are of course
"safe at home" as are those of the commanders explaining about the
pity of civilian casualties. [1]

--
Mark

[1] btw thats not politics .. its "humanist" :-) honest
 
I've been criticized by some acquaintenances of mine that posting pictures of my daughters on Pbase or DPR isn't safe or appropriate (my first DPR post was of my two girls). Whilst being a cautious and hopefully responsible parent, I don't personally find any danger in posting these pics. I would agree there is far more threat from known acquaintenances or at the park or in a store. If you look at random photos in Pbase, I think that lot's of folks don't perceive much of a danger (I actually feel more comfortable knowing that there's probably millions of kids pics in Pbase, thus less a chance of mine being 'singled out').

Whenever I post pictures from parties or camping that include other children, I make all those galleries private in Pbase. Those with just mine I don't.
do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and
family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but
how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i
should. just wondering how you all feel about it
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Jeff Aragaki
http://www.pbase.com/jaragaki
 
I've been criticized by some acquaintenances of mine that posting
pictures of my daughters on Pbase or DPR isn't safe or appropriate
(my first DPR post was of my two girls). Whilst being a cautious
and hopefully responsible parent, I don't personally find any
danger in posting these pics. I would agree there is far more
threat from known acquaintenances or at the park or in a store. If
you look at random photos in Pbase, I think that lot's of folks
don't perceive much of a danger (I actually feel more comfortable
knowing that there's probably millions of kids pics in Pbase, thus
less a chance of mine being 'singled out').

Whenever I post pictures from parties or camping that include other
children, I make all those galleries private in Pbase. Those with
just mine I don't.
Jeff I think we have to not get too paranoid about it ....

If some idiot is going to target us ..... they may do that for any reason ... might live across the road from you or me .... and I think thats more likely than via the internet

Anyone can dig online or offline and find out who you are .. where you live etc .. if they have the patience and desire to .. they will however be traceable online .. and if they are in NJ and you in Austria .. well it would probably pay them to focus on someone across their street wouldnt it... !!

The other things is that of everyone just got on with their lives and posted their pics .. then there would be so many online .. how would one be more significant than another ...

Do you think model kids parents are paranoid about that when they let their kids pose for catalogs?

--
Mark
 
do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and
family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but
how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i
should. just wondering how you all feel about it
Hi Jason,

Not at all and also not for pictures of adults, they also could attire the attention of weirdos but I think that following someone that you see on the street is a much easier way to find a victime then searching on the Internet and then trying to find the address etc.. We are living in a dark world and photography can bring some light in it. I also don't leaved my children at home as if in case that they would take place in my car they eventually could be wounded or killed in an accident and that's much more probable then that they would be hurt by a fool who found them on the Internet. I could give ten thousans more situations who could be very dangerous for children. And we don't have to mention that it are our children, and as there are also many trolls on the net someone could post a picture of a child that is not their and mention that it's their child, so I don't think that there is a problem. And as I'm near to my children you can be sure that I would defend them like a lion.

With very kind regards,

Dirk

http://www.pbase.com/dievee
http://www.2point8.be
 
do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and
family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but
how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i
should. just wondering how you all feel about it
Hi Jason,

Here is a picture of a child, I could write whatever I wish as caption for that image but I'm really sure that nobody could find out who is that child, where he lives etc., even not if it was taken 2O years ago, 10 years ago or yesterday. Except very good friend of me nobody could find that information, so there is no problem at all in posting pictures of chldren I think.



With very kind regards,

Dirk

http://www.pbase.com/dievee
http://www.2point8.be
 
I don't post family/friends related pics for another reason....just to remain anonymous. Also, some people just don't want their pic up on a website for whatever reason and I can respect that.
do you have reservations about posting pics of your kids and
family? i know we all have to be careful in this day and age, but
how careful? whenever i post a personal pic, i second guess if i
should. just wondering how you all feel about it
--
http://www.pbase.com/golfpic/tulips2003
 
i don't think it's much of an issue myself - i hope i'm never proven wrong - my daughter has an entire website about herself and her gymnastics - complete with hundreds of photos, artwork, and journals. most of the internet gymnastics world know where we live too -

i just don't really think that it matters one way or another, the issue to me is whether i put her in a position to be harmed - ie, home alone..at the mall with a group of young stupid kids...she has been talked to since forever about watching herself and those around her - for safety reasons...it's a hard line to draw - between paranoia and freedom.

janetg
 

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