Dennis,
Just wondering how difficult you find shooting hockey with the AF-ON button in the back given the speed and pace of the sport?
It took a short time to get used to it (I'd half-press the shutter release and wonder why it wasn't focusing !) After that, it's great. I have AF-C whenever I want it by holding the button (then press the shutter when ready - you have to remember to half-press early enough to let VR kick in but since I'm at 1/500s I shut VR off anyway).
Yes, VR is not activated with the AE-L/AF-L button when using AF-ON (back button) focus on the D7000. So no, you do not see the image stabilizing in the view finder until you half press the shutter release button. BUT, VR still stabilizes the actual exposure when you take the picture with AF-ON because to take the picture you have to still press the shutter release button . Doing that starts Exposure Mode VR as the mirror rises even though Pres-Exposure mode VR never really came into effect as you never really paused at half press. The VR that causes camera shake to be diminished during exposure is activated by pressing the shutter release regardless is OF-ON is used or not. If the lens VR switch is on...you can't stop VR from affecting the picture when you press the shutter release. The VR step at half causes a stabilized image in the view finder but has no relation to the VR process being applied during the actual exposure. Hope that's clear. My wording can always use some work.
Here is a representative sample taken from a test set
100% crops of my 105mm F2.8 at 1/125s. Taken using AF-ON (back-Button) focus method. Picture focused with finger off the shutter release button then exposure taken with a fast press of shutter release with no pause at half press. As you can see, VR is still very effective using AF-ON. Hope this helps to better explain my post