I guess a lot of people define the 'diffraction limit' as the f-stop when the resolution falls X% below its peak, where X is a number that results in a clearly visible difference. And there is some merit in defining such an f-stop, it gives a range where your lens performs close to optimally.This is an MTF (resolution) curve. MTF of a perfect lens is limited by diffraction, and the curve of the diffraction limit against f-number is a straight descending line. In the case of this lens at large apertures aberrations make it far from a perfect lens, and it resolves distinctly below the 'diffraction limit' As the aperture is closed, the aberrations lessen and the performance of the lens climbs. As it is stopped down more, diffraction becomes the dominant source of resolution loss and the resolution falls, so that later part of the curve is 'diffraction limited'. Now note two things about these curves:
i) the curve begins to drop at the same f-number for the two cameras.
ii) there is no 'limit' at some f-number where resolution suddenly falls.
Thus the 'diffraction limit' caused by pixel size is imaginary and can be ignored.
Note also that the camera with more pixels resolves more with the same lens, at every f-number.
Unfortunately, I think a lot of people use an even more stringent limit: when the resolution appears 'insufficient' when viewed at 100%.