I'd say it depends on your purpose in donating the photos.
Legally, of course they're yours, but that's not a relevant
concern because you haven't been materially damaged.
That said, if your purpose is to render a service, you should
render it without strings. In other words, REALLY give the images
away, including the right to make copies.
I did, indeed render a service - TO THE CHURCH. Not to the
parishoner who took the photo down. The church would probably not
appreciate it either, since no one connected with the church was
asked. The woman who did it is notorious for always doing the
wrong thing and is taken with a heap of salt by everyone, including
me. Furthermore, rendering the "service" did not mean that I
released all right to the photos. When a gift is given, the giver
and receiver have and understanding about what is given. That does
not give the right to a third party to take a part of that gift.
On the other hand, if you are using the church work as a
door-opener for a business, then you should properly identify that
and put a notice in the church bulletin plainly stating that this
was an "introductory offer" and that copies are only to be made by
you. But your timing will be bad, because your motive will now
look small-minded whether or not you intend it to be, and you'll
be making your parishoners wrong, which it's guaranteed they won't
appreciate. Is making them wrong going to help or hurt your
prospective business?
Everyone at our church has business cards posted and many of us try
to support our fellow members in their businesses and they support
us. I don't see anything wrong with that. It is an established
practice at our church. I don't know if that's unusual or not,
never having attended another one. And of course I don't want ot
hurt anyone's feelings or make them feel wrong, hence this original
post, which has, as I hoped, yeilded some very constructive advice.
So whether you're over-reacting or not depends on the value you
place on ownership vs. the value you place on giving to the church.
How would the founder of your church behave in a similar position?
The answer to that will either make you feel good or feel crummy.
Either way, your feeling tells you where you stand in the matter
and then you get to decide if you're over-reacting or not.
To me it shouldn't be an either or situation. I should be able to
render a valuable service to the church, which the members enjoy
and almost universally are responsible in their use, without having
to subject myself to the unauthorized use of my pictures.
Much of this thread seems to imply that my church has somehow
"misused" my pictures. They haven't. They couldn't, because, as
you pointed out, I donated the unconditional rights FOR THE CHURCH
to use the pictures. As I have stated until my fingers are numb,
the woman who took the pictures was not acting for the church, but
taking the pictures to copy and give away as gifts. Not only is
that wrong from my perspective, a enlargement of a 4x6 inkjet print
is a pretty cheesy gift.
If it were me, I'd try letting go both of the pictures and of the
feelings you're experiencing. Probably be better for business in
the long run.
I agree.
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