hey Theroni and others! Thanks for your interest in my response. And thanks to the other posters with their words.
It is true that I was only a lawyer for 3 years before leaving. That was all it took. I had already been shooting while traveling for around 4 years, and I always got the same comments that we all get: 'you're work is good, you should sell some photos'. I then had the chance to shoot some weddings on the side without payment, which I did, and which I enjoyed thoroughly. My parter knew how unhappy I was in the law job; I would consistently arrive home in a terrible mood and she saw how bad the job was for me. She was very supportive the whole way. The final point I kept coming back to was: when I'm 90 and don't have long to go, what will I regret in my life? I will regret the chances I didn't take, and I would also regret staying in a job I absolutely hated just because it payed well.
So I decided to built a website, started some facebook marketing, and booked a few paid weddings based on referrals. Then I booked more, and more, and more, things went from there. Then I quit
I have to also admit that my law job was with a large regional firm, not a international city firm, so salary levels were a lot lower than you're probably imagining. So when I say I'm earning more than as a lawyer, I'm not at 6 figures yet, but I do believe it is possible.
And while I agree with other posters that not every person dreaming of becoming a photographer should suddenly dump all their money on gear and plunge head in just because photo mags tell them they can, I support the fostering of dreams. If a person enters a job without proper skills and fails, they cannot blame a magazine for encouraging them, but themselves for making a bad decision.
I respectfully stand by my original words comments. I think that photographers who tell other aspiring photographers 'I did it, but neeeeeever do what I did, it is too hard, stressful, you can't earn good money, you'll have no life, etc etc' are not helping at all - young (or old) creatives should be encouraged to follow dreams, not dissuaded.
Maybe it is just my area of Aus, but the wedding market is not suffering at all. The more experienced weddings photographers are booming, and the newer guys like me (of which there are quite a few in my town) are all slammed with work. So I think here there is plenty of work to go round, and I personally hear of very few professionals being turned down over Uncle Bob with a D4.