So much for hiding the cost from my wife!!

You know you're in trouble when B&H calls home and leaves you a message wishing happy holidays and your wife picks up the message! (True story!)
 
I design and make furniture and use the D100 to take pictures of my work. I'll design and make a dinning room set for you that she will love and thank you dearly for buying the D100 :)
 
I won't really have a chance to use it until this Saturday. I will let you know then.

Mike H
I'm attempting to purchase the Sigma lens, but it seems very
difficult to get in the UK. Have you had much opportunity to use
it? I'm hoping to pick one up tomorrow morning, right before I go
off to a sporting event (I know leaving things a bit late as usual)

I'd like to hear what you think. It's a bit heavy, I hear.

If you think you have problems hiding the cost of the purchase from
your wife - what about my situation - I'm hiding the entire
purchase (D100, SB80, lenses etc) from my parents, and I still live
with them (poor uni student, I am).

Every time I get home, they go "What have you bought today".

"Ummm nothing. Er, an ink cartridge" is the usual exscuse after
lens shopping

Simon
Sigma 70-200 2.8 HSM
Nikon 24-85 3.5 AF-S
Nikon 50mm 1.8

I also got the 2x converter for the Sigma (don't know how good it
will be, but worth a try).

I should have the camera today which will be just in time to use at
our last soccer game of the season.

I need to go over to my in-laws and show my father-in-law all the
stuff I got. He is a big Nikon fan and has lots of lenses (some
very old but also some new ones). He is not using any of it
anymore since he destroyed his film camera by leaving the batteries
in and they leaked. He is also 78 and starting to age pretty fast.
I am hoping he will lend me one of his long zooms.

Also, I think I made another newbie mistake. By getting the camera
this close to Christmas, it will become my Christmas present. If I
had done this during the summer, I might have been able to squeeze
another lens out of the wife as my Christmas present. Or better
yet, buy it right after Christmas!! Yea, thats the way!!

Mike H
lenses did you finally decide on???
ENH
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Let's see, I enjoy (love ?) my hobby a lot, I put a lot of time, money, care and attention into it (camera, lenses, computer, etc.), the camera/lenses don't talk back or ask anything of me (although I have to be careful of my computer manytimes it [always will be an "it"] WILL talk back to me (beeps, text, images, etc.). And of course, I have no other concerns, obligations or responsibilities other than to myself

Enjoying my freedom,

Stu
 
Accepting applications at [email protected] :D
:)
My wife took the new camera purchase pretty well. Now she has
really come to enjoy it. We have taken at least 5 little get away
trips (over night)since getting the camera in August. She enjoys
the time together and she even helps in the set up of the shot.
So, there is an added benefit I would never have anticipated. One
other bonus, having nice large pictures 16*20 framed on various
walls around the house.
 
you know, being single (me too) is one thing.... i actually feel bad buying the camera... and I found a way to release this bad feeling thoughout my life (i'm only 27).... here is what i did.

After I bought my 2nd Mercedes, I bought my dad an exact one only his has 4 doors, mine is 2 door. B/c I felt bad that I'm driving better than what he is driving...

After I bought a Canon EOS 1n-RS plus serveral 2.8 zoom lenses, I bought him a Nikon F5 for his birthday... b/c I felt bad using things better than he's using (altho he had lots other super nice cameras)...............

After I bought a Digital Nikon CP990, I DIDN'T felt bad at all.... BUT then he started to become interested in digital photography, and last month, I bought him a D100............................................................ b/c, I felt bad he doesn't have a digital camera and I do......

I guess he taught his sons good... (sorry if this sounds like showing off wealth, no... i'm just giving out a real example in another way similiar to the wife-effect)
 
Sometimes when women say "do as you like", you can go ahead. Sometimes you'd better not. They forget and forgive after a while, though.
Well, I did it!! I ordered the D100, lenses, bag, filters and an
extra battery last night. Most of it should be here either
tomorrow or the next day.

I was not going to tell my wife how much this cost since she did
say "Hun if you need a new camera, get one". But Discover Card
called the house this morning to make sure the charges were ok.
She then called me and asked, "Did you charge $xxx.xx at B&H and
$x,xxx.xx at Wolf Camera.com"?

Why do I smell an new dinning room set coming? :(

Mike H

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Do whatever it takes to keep her happy, dude. Women like to feel a personal and emotional connection to the people in their lives, and they rarely get it, in my experience. If you can keep her emotionally happy you can buy whatever you want without having to reimburse her with things she wants, because all she'll want is to see the smile on your face when the package arrives.

This is what the women in my life have told me anyway. The same is true the other way around also. Women I love can get and do anything they want, and as long as I see them happy, its all I need (because its all I've ever wanted.)
Well, I did it!! I ordered the D100, lenses, bag, filters and an
extra battery last night. Most of it should be here either
tomorrow or the next day.

I was not going to tell my wife how much this cost since she did
say "Hun if you need a new camera, get one". But Discover Card
called the house this morning to make sure the charges were ok.
She then called me and asked, "Did you charge $xxx.xx at B&H and
$x,xxx.xx at Wolf Camera.com"?

Why do I smell an new dinning room set coming? :(

Mike H
 
---------- not missed on many of us -- but the real point of this thread and the other one is the deviance of women – this poor man just fell for the oldest trick in the women’s arsenal, no matter how long you stay married to them they always have the “them and us” mentality in dealing with their husbands or boyfriends (pre marriage).

Single people are more attuned to this con but may go along with a woman’s ploy for obvious reasons – we won’t go into details. Suffice to say the poor man is an innocent who believes his wife stops all those silly games and he keeps falling for the old traps, and even more readily the longer he is married to the same woman.

Truth be told most women run rings around their men folk and if they live to be 150 years married the man is still falling for the woman’s wiles.

But, as long as we (men) don’t let on that we know – it’s fine!!!! ;))
 
Kinda sad, when we want something we need to beg or hide it, if they find out it will cost us dearly. But if they want something all they need to do is come into a room and offer sx and before you know if we have given in to all their demands. If only it could be that easy for us :)
This is what the women in my life have told me anyway. The same is
true the other way around also. Women I love can get and do
anything they want, and as long as I see them happy, its all I need
(because its all I've ever wanted.)
Well, I did it!! I ordered the D100, lenses, bag, filters and an
extra battery last night. Most of it should be here either
tomorrow or the next day.

I was not going to tell my wife how much this cost since she did
say "Hun if you need a new camera, get one". But Discover Card
called the house this morning to make sure the charges were ok.
She then called me and asked, "Did you charge $xxx.xx at B&H and
$x,xxx.xx at Wolf Camera.com"?

Why do I smell an new dinning room set coming? :(

Mike H
 
Trust me, hiding the cost is the worst thing you could do! You lose the ability to desensitize your wife to your purchases!

A few years back, I had to seriously work on my wife to finagle a grey market Nikkor 20mm AF. Earlier this year I got the D1x (courtesy a bonus from work for a rather evil project). She knew exactly what it (and the various extras) cost. A couple months thereafter, it wasn't too hard to convince her that I needed an AF-S 80-200 in time for my sister's wedding. And recently we'd been discussing a decent tripod. Sunday, I said I'd like to go into B&H to pick up one. She said "Sure."

"You realize that in order to make the trip worthwhile, so I won't have to keep upgrading, it's not going to be cheap."

"Sure."

"You realize that 'not cheap' is around a grand, right, before getting the QR plates or bags?"

"Yep."

It's a wonderful thing, I tell you.
 

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