It depends on what you want to shoot in low light. If posed groups, then maybe you're better off with an IS lens because you'd want to stop down from max aperture for depth of field anyway. Despite all the benefits of in-lens IS/VR that Nikon & Canon tout, you don't get fast stabilized primes.
You've got a zoom. Is 35mm a desireable focal length ? Would you prefer a 50/1.8 or even face shots with an 85/1.8 ?
There's a rule of thumb for SLRs that says you should shoot at a shutter speed equal to or faster than 1/FL where FL is the focal length (for 35mm - for APS-C, use the 1.5x equivalent) for reasonably sharp (not tripod sharp) photos. In low light, wide open, at high ISOs, you're not exactly setting yourself up for critically sharp photos anyway, so 1/FL is fine. with a 35mm lens, that means 1/50s. 1/45 or 1/60 will do. If you can hold the camera really steady, you might get away with 1/30s. And down around 1/30s you're risking subject motion blur shooting candids of people - it might be fine if you're asking them to pose for a shot, but when I shoot candids, I try for 1/60s or faster. At 1/30s I know I'll have to toss some due to subject motion blur and any slower, I don't bother.
All of which is a long-winded way of saying that for shooting people (candids) I much prefer a fast lens. I notice the benefits of IS more when shooting my 85/1.4 since it shows camera shake more readily between 1/30s and 1/60s than my 28/2. I appreciate IS with either when shooting subjects where I want to stop down for DOF ... but of course, you have that option with a fast lens.
One other possibility is a compromise. A fast lens that still gives you zoom capability, like a Tamron 17-50 or 28-75/2.8. Still not stabilized on Nikon/Canon, but faster than the kit lens while offering some range. Only one stop slower than an f/2 prime. (My 28/2 is f/2 anyway and my 85/1.4 I shoot down to f/2 because depth of field is too shallow at f/1.4). You'd probably be content to shoot the 35/1.8 wide open without worrying about DOF being too shallow.
So what are your expected low light subjects ?
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