Marion is in Hospital and in a bad condition

Bill Borne

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I haven't been here in a while as I've taken a break from photography.
I just recieved this Email and don't know any more. Say your Prayers!!!

Bill,
You don't know me....but I remember Marion talking about you from the
"forum."
This is an email that I received from a cousin of Marion's Maybe you can
spread the word.
thanks
Anita
http://www.anitajader.com

Anita,
The attached email is from my wife's aunt.
Marion is in room 461 at Methodist.
I'm on my way there now and will pass along addition information as I get
it.
Talk to you soon,
Mark Sommerfeld

----- Original Message -----

Sunday night, October 4, 2009

Elaine: Mark's address seems lost in my address book. Please forward this
to him and also send me his email address.

I got a phone call this morning from a worried sounding nurse at Methodist
Hospital. Marion had had a serious head injury, and his chances for
survival weren't good.

I phoned his best friend, Chuck Sullivan, and he went straight to the
hospital. I stopped on the way to the hospital to feed Marion's cat
(something I do whenever he's hospitalized). A woman at Ebenezer was
surprised. She'd seen him about 8 p.m. last
night. He'd fallen and hit his head while riding his bicycle and hurt his
head-such a blow that he showed her the dent in his helmet-but he seemed
okay, she said.

At hospital, Chuck and I met with a regular MD and a brain surgeon, who told
us that prescription coumadin was causing his brain to have a lot of blood
in it. If that could be stopped, he might have a chance to recover-but it
didn't look good. Under
5% chance of recovery.
Chuck asked whether Marion had arrived by ambulance, and the nurse said
no, she thought he'd taken a cab.
Marion's only motion was chest movement of his breath. He was not
responsive to any touch or sound. Late afternoon, still no motion or
response. At that time, it was decided to go with his wishes and
discontinue IV and oxygen. Chuck and I waited
another hour, talked to and touched him. Then sadly left.
This evening, I stopped off and fed Fancy, then went to the hospital with
the hope that I might see Marion move, When I got to the hospital, they
told me that he is on life support and being kept comvortable. He will be
placed in hospice and might
live another day or two.
I might send another email about the cat, and who will take care of his
affairs, since he has no will. I did arrange with Cremation Society.

--
Bill



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I know how many people become attached to their cyber friends and I offer my sympathies.
Diane
 
I know he often jokes of his age and various injuries, but somehow I never quite thought of anything this serious happening any time soon.

Any and all prayers and thoughts I can pass, I'm passing. Hopefully, the tough old bird side of him can pull him through.

It certainly explains the quietness around here...

Thank you for passing along the update, and if you have way of getting word back to friends or family, let them know we're all pulling for him.

--
Justin
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--
Sarge
 
This is very sad. I hope Marion beats the odds.
 
Don't know what to say other than I miss him and am looking forward to him getting back here.

--
Busch

Take the scenic route! Life is too short to do otherwise.

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--
Harri
Sony H2. H5 & Oly E 510
 
Just received an email from my dear friend Ed who shared Marion's poor health. His condition does indeed sound dire, but at least there is a flicker of hope. And I wanted to respond out of my deep respect and love for our dear Marion.

I'm considering that Marion's fall may have been the result of a mini-stroke which triggered the brain hemorrhage rather than the fall itself. Because of the coumarin and his age, his risks for brain hemorrhage were increased about tenfold (based on prior information from my parent's physician). Even if he were to miraculously recover, there would be the neuro-related concerns.

As I told Ed, I had just shared a round of emails with Marion. He was always busy, challenging himself. He was such a great example to all and I know that he will be missed dearly by this forum should this be his time. I remember his posts being fun, and uplifting, and thought provoking.

I wish you all well and please know that I have a place in my heart for each and every one of my dear friends at the STF and you are often in my thoughts.

I will pray for dear Marion and that you will all be strengthened by this tragic event, and will be comforted by the seeds that Marion has planted here over the last few years.

God Bless. Your friend always,
--
Sky
 
Man, this is heart breaking!! While most of us here don't know him personally, he's shared so much of his life, I feel that I've known him for years. And we talk to him almost every day. I have friends close by that I see or talk to, much less frequently. He's a fighter, and while there's a glimmer of hope, there's still a chance that he'll pull through. Thank God he was wearing a helmet. Thanks for the message and please keep us posted.
--
Dwight D
http://flickr.com/photos/8089130@N03/
 
Unfortunately about all we mere mortals can do in a dire situation like this is keep him and the people he holds dear in our thoughts and prayers. Maybe... just maybe... the doctors are wrong and he'll be back and up to his old antics again. If that's not to be, he'll be sorely missed here - that's for sure.

Very tragic news, indeed :(
--
Jerry
Sony V1, H5 and A350... Still learning...

'The camera is an instrument that teaches people how to see without a camera.'
-- Dorothea Lange

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