Fostereast
Leading Member
I'm not sure what atage of this situation you are at, but one suggestion I would make;
If your still talking to the party in question in a friendly manner, make an appointment to visit them, show them (On your computer) the wedding presentation of the work you did, and as you finish up (keep this part of the meeting very much about them and the excitement about their special day). After this part of the meeting, tell them very politely that your frustrated that you feel at odds with them over the financial situation of this assignment and that you want both parties to feel good about the outcome of their wedding album or photos. If your paying attention to them, you should get a feel for what their feelings are and if they are going to make things right. (or they will just say what's going on and you'll feel they are honest) If this meeting ends with no next steps that you are satisfied with escalate to a nasty letter or whatever you feel is appropriate.
If you think it will help, explain to them that you make a living hour by hour and you can't add another wedding to that lost weekend to make up for your loss in that effort, nor can you invent another week before years end to make up for that lost weekend.
Juat another opinion, I know that this type of situation is very difficult and many of us are un-prepared because most people are honest.
If your still talking to the party in question in a friendly manner, make an appointment to visit them, show them (On your computer) the wedding presentation of the work you did, and as you finish up (keep this part of the meeting very much about them and the excitement about their special day). After this part of the meeting, tell them very politely that your frustrated that you feel at odds with them over the financial situation of this assignment and that you want both parties to feel good about the outcome of their wedding album or photos. If your paying attention to them, you should get a feel for what their feelings are and if they are going to make things right. (or they will just say what's going on and you'll feel they are honest) If this meeting ends with no next steps that you are satisfied with escalate to a nasty letter or whatever you feel is appropriate.
If you think it will help, explain to them that you make a living hour by hour and you can't add another wedding to that lost weekend to make up for your loss in that effort, nor can you invent another week before years end to make up for that lost weekend.
Juat another opinion, I know that this type of situation is very difficult and many of us are un-prepared because most people are honest.