Unless people actually developed their own film and made their own prints, they're probably largely unaware of how much "grain peeping" went on back then.
I think people have an overly-romanticized vision of what analog photography was all about.
There was endless technical discussion and experimenting to try to achieve different results. We'd use different films, different exposure levels, different developer formulations, different temperatures, times, and even our own special methods of agitation to get the grain and tonal qualities we were after.
The way a film is exposed and processed will affect grain and what we'd now think of as "curves".
The type of light-source in the enlarger would affect the spectrum of light and thus affect how it penetrated the film and how it affected the sensitive emulsion on the print paper. Again, this was similar to curves or contrast adjustments.
The technical side of things was always there. Today's "pixel peeping" and endless discussions of how things work or should work in our cameras, and how various software works or should work are nothing new in photography.
The worst grain film I ever tried was Royal X at ASA 1000. Nasty stuff
Even Tri-X (ASA 400) shot and processed "normally" had visible grain in even an 8 X 10 print.
The noise, pixellation, banding, posterization, and other things we see in our DSLR images is different than film grain was, so it's not directly comparable.
But overall, I'd say that ISO for ISO, I get better images from today's DSLRs, even APS-C sized, than I ever got from that same speed of 35mm sized film.
In my experience, digital has now surpassed film in most ways.
Plus.... My hands don't stink when I'm done making a bunch of prints now ;-)
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Jim H.