Should I stop you in the street and tell you that this is not
acceptable by MY standards, even though you have not broken any laws,
OR should I just buy a hybrid and hope that more people will come
around over time?
Well let's just say that if this kind of thing had happened in a
workplace then someone would have been fired. In a second! So yes it
would have broken the workplace Sexual Harrasment Laws and you would
have landed yourself on the street without a job. And I realize that
there are no such "laws" like this on this forum, but just the fact
that it is not apporpriate in a workplace should give you an idea
that it proabably is not appropriate anywhere.
What kind of thing? What are you responding to here? I can't see how
this is relevent to my hybrid example!
The point is that there will always be differing views. We cannot and
should not change this. This is precisely why we have laws. Laws are
the "common morality" that guide our society and as I have previously
mentioned, Jim has not breached any law.
The issue is, is that you cannot understand why these women in these
photos would be offended by the juvenile remarks that went on about
them in this post.
I would assume that you would think that they would be flattered by
it, or that they were "asking for it" by dressing a certain way.
But then again, maybe I am wrong and you do understand that they
would be offended by it and you don;t care about how they would feel.
It is one of these, which one is it?
Actually, you are wrong on both counts! Please go back and re-read my
posts.
You will not find ANY reference whereby I have condoned crude or
inappropriate remarks towards anyone.
My post have been very specific. I am refering to:
1. A persons right to take photos in a public place.
And I have agreed that they do have the right to do that, but if the subject has been taken advantage of, as in the case of sexual harrasment then it is unethical, not illegal.
2. The perons right to post those photos on the web.
Again, they have the right to post it, of coarse, but again, if it is presented as a group of only attractive women in a forum where people are making uncalled for comments and oogling them then it becomes inappropriate.
3. Questioning why other people feel the need to come onto the OP's
thread and attack him for doing something that doesn't fit within
their own "moral standards" even though he has not breached any law.
I'm not sure if it is specifically a "Moral Standard". It is a Human Right not to be treated in way that is disrespectful. There is a difference, and it is a right that is defined in the Workplace with Sexual Harsment "Laws", as I was saying before.
Can you please direct me to any statement that I have made that would
make you think that I condone crude remarks that you are referencing
here??? You are clearly confusing my post to someone else's.
Well your Entire post, that I have just pasted bellow , lays out that you have a "difference in Morality" than me, so obviously you dissagree with my observations that the conduct was inappropriate, therefore you condone it.
You say "What I don't accept is people attacking Jim and others based on THEIR sense of morality even though he has not breached any law." So obviously you accept their sense of morality and the way the conducted themselves.
Hi there,
I guess you would defend this kind this post Allen.
http://www.pbase.com/thrumyeyes/summertime
Yes I would and for the same reasons that I have already mentioned.
Do you acknowledge that there has been NO breach of the law here?
If so, then the only issue we have is the differences in "morality". If you read my other post you will see that I accept there are different points of view here. You clearly disagree and that's fine by me. What I don't accept is people attacking Jim and others based on THEIR sense of morality even though he has not breached any law.
So, should we all just accept that your point of view as "correct" and stop posting anything that conflicts with this? Of course not!
All I am saying is that maybe the better way for you (and others who share your perspective) to protest would be to simply NOT acknowledge the OP's post in the first place and move on to a more acceptable thread.
Where do we draw the line on "morality". What sort of car do you drive? I wouldn't have a clue, BUT lets say it was a large V8 vehicle. It's not against the law to drive these cars but maybe (hypothetical) I have an issue with you impacting on global warming.
Should I stop you in the street and tell you that this is not acceptable by MY standards, even though you have not broken any laws, OR should I just buy a hybrid and hope that more people will come around over time?
The point is that there will always be differing views. We cannot and should not change this. This is precisely why we have laws. Laws are the "common morality" that guide our society and as I have previously mentioned, Jim has not breached any law.
Have a great day.
Cheers
Allan
To the OP, I am sorry for dragging this out. I was trying to offer
some support, however I have just added fuel to the fire.
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